Not just acceptable, but seen as normal. I have had guys want to insist I was bi because I run hot, and kind of freaky - like they knew and I just had not realized. Um, no.
RBWellsV23
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I feel like most guys are sexually opportunistic, flexible, sailors and jailed guys, any port in a storm, right?
But since you have a gem of an open minded wife, would say you are at least bicurious. If you enjoy it and it feels like sex, not performance, then I would say bi. Not before.
I mean, how do you know if you don't try? That's exactly how I know I am straight.
Ok - you met on Hinge so you have at least some assurance that they are looking for a physical relationship, yes? But they have not brought it up with you yet? You are into them and do want sex if they are down but like them in other ways so would like to be friends if not?
Maybe just touch them physically a little and see what response you get, if you are having trouble finding words? Hold hands?
I mean if you ask does something exist, yes it does. But submissive men are the most common commodity, submissive ladies, then dom guys then Dommes. So it's probably not the details they are hung up on, more like they have a lot of choice overall and limited time, attention and desire.
Good luck though!
Not while he is in me, no, it's more don't stop, please more, or please cum in me, depending. But before, sure, sometimes, like if we are just playing with each other and my mind gets stuck on something not sexy I will usually pause to talk
I've had casual years and no problem emotionally with recreational sex, enjoyed it. I can monogamy if my partner stays interested in sex. So one, as long as we can do it every day, and he fits.
Different guy every day? No way, 75% of them would probably suck, and the ones that were good I wouldn't be able to see again, so no. Variety is less important to me than good sex.
I'd only worry about STD, other than that I do like experienced guys and if it was someone's passion and they invited me, wanted to give me a good time, why not? No big investment on my part and would be part of something. Wouldn't seek it out but disease risk my only reason to say no (so in this real world I'd have to say no.)
I agree with that. It's the opposite of a kink. Not that everything else isn't sex, it is. But the plainest sex of all, the farthest from kinky, is PIV to finish inside.
BJ, I just want warning. My ex was the first one I'd done that with and his cum so voluminous and foul, I thought all guys tasted like that and would gag when I saw or read about swallowing.
But spitting it out and washing out my mouth worked fine. Nobody since him has had such a foul taste or such a huge load; he was a once a week guy (so didn't get many blow jobs since I didn't want to miss my only chance) and also unholy fertile - I got pregnant literally every time we didn't use something, and he got his allegedly infertile, (40 years old and had never used birth control, never gotten pregnant and had some condition her doctor said made her infertile) girlfriend pregnant too. So I wonder if literal sperm are disgusting in flavor?
I had a cervix surgery, and the doctor said no sex and no orgasms for six weeks. I think I made it about ten days before the sex dreams started, my body did not agree with the no O thing. I did heal ok though.
After childbirth is the longest for sure, nursing absolutely tanked my libido down past zero. It was a negative sex drive - like to even get to a normal "I might be able to if you want to" took a lot of work - I didn't want it and was touched out - and so unsettling after the high of pregnancy. So under more extreme circumstances, 1.5 years, four times. And about 7 or 8 years before I started in the first place, I guess.
Not a man, but I always wonder why guys think that is so hot, it doesn't seem like there is much you can do with two women, that you can't do with one. Like, give me two guys and there are so many things I can enjoy that I can't do with one so I understand MFM, (ETA: meaning even if the guys are straight it's fun) but what are you all looking forward to with the FMF?