Inside, absolutely.
Outside is just for porn, I don't understand wanting that for participating in sex. We evolved to want it in us.
RBWellsV23
joined 2 years ago
Sapiosexuals are wholesome as fuck, it's so cool to get turned on by someone's wit and knowledge.
Length, yes. I don't like when guys are so long that you have to be careful, don't like careful sex. Too long and there is too much cervix banging.
Too thick? Not in the moment, no, there hasn't been anyone I couldn't enjoy once it got going. And I'm enough of a sexual masochist that if it hurts at first it turns me on, so it always worked out. But plenty I wouldn't have dated or been regular with, because I needed recovery time and I'm an everyday lady.
I'm older and experienced, and the first dozen guys I did (before first LTR) were so similar erect that I thought ALL guys were the same size hard, no matter how they looked soft.
Fast forward to the breakup - since then I've seen way more variety, swinger guys skew a little above average, and both my interim lover and now husband really were into seeing me take big hung guys, had to jump out of the lifestyle and thankfully husband is my ideal fit, now that I've had the different experiences and know enough to know.
Nobody has really shocked me size wise once I understood there were actually different sizes. Most really big guys I've seen in real life seem to have that down curve, which kinda makes sense.
Not for me, plus no TV in the bedroom, never.
Erotica or porn is good for keeping libido up, in general. I don't like it as a part of IRL sex.
For me - uncircumcised feels better for PIV, particularly with big hung guys - less friction, so good.
For oral I do prefer circumcised, just familiarity I guess?
Both are weak preferences not strong, we all know guys don't usually get to choose, and it would never be a deciding factor. And for casual wrapped is important and that makes it a moot point.
Yes slower and harder/deeper or if it's doggy husband sort of stays still and I "drive" (for lack of a better term) that works too.
Not for me, not even a little bit, no no no.
No judgement though.
Yes. Yes they are. With boots.
Not, but I do try to find things that are flattering, and often don't bra anymore except for work. Jeans & a sweater or jeans and a t-shirt, depending on the season. Sometimes yoga pants, husband finds those sexy, and for some reason also he loves the wide leg pants.
What? That is a very good outfit on a man. Roll up those sleeves!
I had a cervix surgery, and the doctor said no sex and no orgasms for six weeks. I think I made it about ten days before the sex dreams started, my body did not agree with the no O thing. I did heal ok though.
After childbirth is the longest for sure, nursing absolutely tanked my libido down past zero. It was a negative sex drive - like to even get to a normal "I might be able to if you want to" took a lot of work - I didn't want it and was touched out - and so unsettling after the high of pregnancy. So under more extreme circumstances, 1.5 years, four times. And about 7 or 8 years before I started in the first place, I guess.