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My mom (boomer) has been scammed twice, and it's not been a simple issue of naivety or even stupidity...it's been that, and a bit of greed, thinking more about what she'd get out of the deal, than how much sense the whole thing made, in each case. The underlying thing that attracted the scammers in each case, were her Facebook posts about going on multiple vacations and cruises.

The first one was the scam about an inheritance in probate, in Nigeria. She just had to send the money for the courts to get past probate, and then she'd be able to claim the inheritance left by her mysterious relative. Now, the maternal side of my family is Polish and Romanian, and the paternal side is British and German. I just don't know who she may have thought bounced over to Nigeria and keeled over.

The second scam was the Exxon executive, who woke up in a hospital bed after a car accident, missing his wallet. The hospital was holding him captive in his hospital room until he could pay his bill, which somehow she could help with, by sending Amazon gift cards. The greed part comes in with him apparently having his phone, and being able to send her pics of his cars, properties, and bank statements. The stupid part comes in from about a thousand different directions and 4 dimensions...I mean, she even met his "daughter" in a video call, and adoption was discussed (the mother was apparently long dead). My mom spent a full career as a RN - in hospitals (in the US) - where they don't incarcerate people until the bills are paid. Additionally, one would think that since any Tom, Dick, or Harry, missing their wallet, but with their phone, would be able to get ahold of someone - anyone, who might be able to contact a financial institution or work colleague, to secure proof of funds availability, replacement credit cards, or access to their finances. An executive with Exxon should definitely be able to show at least enough bling to pop themselves out of "hospital jail," one would think. Finally, Amazon gift cards?

With my sister going through their correspondence, we found the name he gave my mom to be one letter off the correct spelling of the Exxon executive in the photo of himself that he sent her. The location of his grand home, on Google Earth anyway, appears to be the pool maintenance shed at a motel in TX.

Me: "Mom! It's a scam."

Mom: "No! I love him, and he loves me! I'm flying out to meet him, and help him out of the hospital. His daughter is picking me up from the airport."

Me: "Wait. You said you were thinking about adopting his daughter when you got married - to this guy you've never met in person. The daughter is an adult?!"

Mom: "No. She's 16 and has her driver's license."

Me: "So wait...she lives in his house with no adult supervision, since her father is hospital-bound. She has access to the car, but somehow can't help with transportation, banking access, or the replacement credit card/replacement ID situation?"

Mom: "You're so negative. You just don't want to understand."

Me: 🙄😒🫤

Wow! We have 5 vehicles in our household, a camper, and we used to have 2 motorcycles. 1 vehicle was inherited after a death on the family, 1 vehicle was found in a sales-paper/magazine called "The Trading Post." The camper was bought new from a dealership via eBay, and we saved $13.5k buying the 5th wheel version of the same camper that we walked through locally in VA, in its tag-along version - I just had to drive to IA to get it. The 3 other vehicles and 2 motorcycles were bought through eBay, and they've all been good experiences.

Oh, reading your reply made me feel a bit hypercritical, LOL! While I've never heard of the "juicero," I do own a "Bartesian." It's a cocktail-making machine, where you supply the alcohol, and the various cocktail mixers come in a Keruig-like packet. You insert the packet, select the strength of beverage you want, between non-alcoholic (who does that?) to strong, place the appropriate cocktail stemware (or Soho cup) underneath, then drink away.

I'm not too hypercritical though....it works really well, and is a party hit.

Aw, man! I specifically added the proper amount of U's, posted it, then had to go back and edit the autocorrect.

Bad headline...should read, "doesn't care to do anything, with regard to getting him back."

Danielle Smith: Soorry aboot that, but orange is my favourite colour.

Soon to be seen on the battlefield: Reinforced, armored attack-Ladas, with turrets mounted on the roof.

Well, many industries seem very interested in dragging us "happy with being manual people," kicking and screaming, into all this tech crap.

If the US government believes if everyone is an asshole, nobody will be an asshole.

Wouldn't it be great if Denmark asked NATO to send peacekeeping force, to protect them from the US?

Isn't 04/02 supposed to be some martial law day? Maybe he's getting ready to declare that he can't wear a suit again, until the "war" is over.

Critical assessment from a politician who's a failure by most assessments. As a person who doesn't care what you think, thanks for your opinion? I guess?

What's that? I think I heard your mom calling you. It's probably time to go home now.