VerilyFemme

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[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Internet blackout would definitely mean staying uninformed for a week, but honestly that doesn't sound like a terrible idea.

Not everyone is going to be a radical, no matter what's right or what's wrong.

Pushing the public to take a step toward less dependence on corporations is still a good thing. Is it the cure-all? No. But a step in the right direction is what a lot of people need to start waking up.

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I assume because this is more for the normies. I plan to keep my wallet away from these companies regardless, but some people need a little push.

If they can give up Amazon for a week, maybe they realize they can live without it. But I think more politically inactive people can be convinced with "only for a week" than "boycott this corporation that you've been dependent on your whole life forever." Sometimes it's about getting people to take that first step.

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 days ago (16 children)

Riiiight, because organizing people to turn away from corporations won't help in the slightest. They surely won't find alternatives to Walmart and Amazon in the weeklong boycotts. Nobody will start looking into farmers' markets due to not buying groceries at Walmart.

Every little bit helps, and the majority of the American public cannot be convinced to approach radical action. They have to get their feet wet. Don't let perfect be the enemy of good.

That's a great idea! I know that Build The Resistance has training courses, but I have not yet looked into them.

That's awesome! Keep up the good work!

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Lol are you trying to say I’m being racist towards US citizens?

Nope. There's definitely too much anti-Latin American sentiment here, that's part of why we're in this mess. But I would say a good portion of people here aren't racist toward Mexicans. But, a large part of that same portion just doesn't have empathy for their situation because of a self-focused attitude.

Again, it feels like you're preemptively judging US citizens. We're the evil empire, there's no denying that. But, no doubt, some of us will be the victims when it's all said and done. Just as you are one of the victims of US aggression now, US aggression will eventually turn toward its own citizens. Now, this is me preemptively judging the situation, albeit with more real life experience of our citizenry, but I do think many here will put up a fight on their turf (mostly because of that self-focused attitude mentioned earlier).

That said, if the situation escalates into civil war, there will be plenty of innocents caught in the crossfire - and those are the potential refugees to which I'm referring. Nobody wants you to let MAGA jump ship after they unleashed the plague rats. God willing, that attitude will crumble as it makes DC crumble.

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I don't think you're all the worst, I think that your best is rare and that most of you are not nearly as great as you think you are.

Well, you have the general US attitude nailed down at least.

But, I do think you're preemptively judging the situation. Most people who helped perpetrate this will go down with the ship. They still think everything is fine. You're kind of just displaying the attitude most US citizens have toward our southern neighbors - and look what kind of leader that got us.

At least Trump's win was enough of a wake up call to the world that it weakened Poilievre a bit. For now.

Hopefully, in that case, more enlistees than refugees.

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 days ago (4 children)

So, you think we all are the worst of us?

Given the situation, I can't judge.

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 days ago (6 children)

Riiiight, because intelligent, hardworking people won't want to bail too.

Hope you guys at least accept enlistees ;)

Ooh I forgot about Project+! The only way to play Brawl. It turns it into possibly the best Smash game to date.

 

For context, I've been on the fence about going on HRT.

During my therapy session today, I was talking about some of the fears I have about going on HRT. Up until now, I've been trying to ease myself into transitioning because I do have my doubts and I don't want to rush into the wrong decision.

I've been "crossdressing" (what does one call this if they think they're trans?) on and off for a while now, and I've been in therapy about dysphoria for a few months now, but HRT is still a big decision that I didn't want to influence myself toward if I didn't need it. I didn't go by female pronouns, didn't experiment with names, hesitated to call myself trans until I soul searched a bit more and knew. I think that's partially due to fear of being ostracized by my family or affected by the horrible legislation attempting to go around in America right now, or really just rushing into something big like that in general.

Lately, I've been leaning toward wanting to go on HRT. I've been searching for clinics to freeze my sperm and I've found a couple of sources for HRT, just to have everything sorted if I decide to start transitioning. Today, when I was going over my fears with my therapist, I just blurted out

"Fuck, if I had gone on HRT when I was 18 then I would just be a woman by now. Dammit."

Right after I said that, I realized exactly what I had said and what emotions I was actually expressing. I think it took me forever to admit it but I definitely want HRT. I want to be a woman. I'm scared still, in many ways, but I think this is the path for me and I want to embrace all the joys and struggles which come alongside transitioning. So that said, I'd like to ask any of you girls on HRT, what were some unexpected trials and happy moments during the process?

I turn 23 this December, and it would be amazing if I could start HRT before then. It's doable, I have to hunt down some good sperm banks first because I still want biological kids someday. My main fear right now (and I do apologize to you non-American Lemmy users that are sick of hearing about this) is this damnable upcoming election. I don't believe that team Trump will go down quietly if Harris wins, but it would ease my mind greatly if I knew I didn't have to navigate my transition with a 2nd Trump administration breathing down my neck. How are you other American girls dealing with that? I'm almost at the point where I say fuck it all and live my life. So close.....

but do I want to paint a target on myself?

Idk. Thanks for reading my thought spew, it helps to get it out in writing sometimes.

 

The chiaroscuro shading raises the value of this piece tremendously.

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