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[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Still homophobia IMO...

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Whether she realizes it or not, that is homophobic in my opinion. I might be too sensitive, but yeah. She might not be consciously trying to or realizing it, but I feel like she should work on her reactions. I have heard of queer people who don't like seeing it everywhere, and it could be anywhere from internalized homophobia to just not wanting special treatment, but I feel like she should work on that because it sounds a LOT like homophobic popular girls' reactions in my old high school...

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I will be patient with this one queer teen I knew even if they bullied me. She might not know better but she thinks she's one of the "good lesbians". And that LGBTQ+ people are evil with an "agenda". I don't talk to her anymore because she blocked me and thinks that Latinos are evil and that they're all illegal. What a shame, her grandma is actually Korean and came to the U.S.

But yeah, I hope she changes her ways.

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago

Don't delete it! I love hearing others' perspectives!

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 week ago

Thank you so much! :D

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thank you so much! I actually knew a queer MAGA person who was very "I'm one of the good lesbians" and also anti-hormones for anyone, even adults.

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 week ago

I think so. I feel like if they have queer friends, a cishet MAGA person MIIIGHT change their stance, but they also might be very discriminatory. Since I, however, dealt with these thoughts and had my first crush on a girl around that time, I started acknowledging it and talking to more queer people and changed my stance. I also became friends with a boy whose parents came to the U.S. undocumented, so when I found out how hurt he was by my opinion, I began researching what they do to immigrants.

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago

I was a girl then, now genderfluid transmasc :)

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 week ago

This was... mmm, 3-ish years ago as I now have graduated high school. I know, it was terrible :,)

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago

Che cazzate, no?

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I also had just come from Gym class one day, so I once said “Estoy caliente” instead of “Tengo calor”. The Spanish speakers taking it for extra credit laughed at me…

 

crosspostato da: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/31956758

"Dere types" are like tsundere, yandere, etc.

Catherine - Has a cat theme but isn't literally a cat. She is treated like a cat and a tool by the antagonists that traumatized her. At first, she acts sweet and kind with a very disturbed, traumatized interior and acts distrustful to Belle (who has a black cat motif) but later warms up to Belle.

Belle - Belle's exterior is like a black cat -- shy and aloof. She, too, acts cautious and distrustful to Catherine, but ends up dating her.

Dominique - Dominique, at first, seems like a friendly and shy girl. She is very patient and kind, and appears as “one of the good ones” to Catherine after Natasha’s mistreatment of her. However, Dominique is actually best friends with Natasha, and is very violent. She screams at Catherine, insults her, and says she just wants Catherine to “shut up and die”.

Natasha - Natasha is one of the “owners” of Catherine, who she decides to treat as a “pet” because she reminds her of a cat (hence the name CATherine). Natasha and her friends invite Catherine into the friend group and they all live together, but Catherine is treated badly there and Natasha makes a plan to kill Catherine. She is very fake and manipulative, and at first is very sweet, ladylike, and kind, before revealing it to be a facade.

Nora - Nora has a bear theme. At first, like a bear, she is rather violent and plans to kill her love interest. However, she begins to show a dere side after warming up to her and no longer wants to violently attack her.

 

"Dere types" are like tsundere, yandere, etc.

Catherine - Has a cat theme but isn't literally a cat. She is treated like a cat and a tool by the antagonists that traumatized her. At first, she acts sweet and kind with a very disturbed, traumatized interior and acts distrustful to Belle (who has a black cat motif) but later warms up to Belle.

Belle - Belle's exterior is like a black cat -- shy and aloof. She, too, acts cautious and distrustful to Catherine, but ends up dating her before breaking up with her after realizing she thought she was in love, but never was. (They both find someone later).

Dominique - Dominique, at first, seems like a friendly and shy girl. She is very patient and kind, and appears as “one of the good ones” to Catherine after Natasha’s mistreatment of her. However, Dominique is actually best friends with Natasha, and is very violent. She screams at Catherine, insults her, and says she just wants Catherine to “shut up and die”.

Natasha - Natasha is one of the “owners” of Catherine, who she decides to treat as a “pet” because she reminds her of a cat (hence the name CATherine). Natasha and her friends invite Catherine into the friend group and they all live together, but Catherine is treated badly there and Natasha makes a plan to kill Catherine. She is very fake and manipulative, and at first is very sweet, ladylike, and kind, before revealing it to be a facade.

Nora - Nora has a bear theme. At first, like a bear, she is rather violent and plans to kill her love interest. However, she begins to show a dere side after warming up to her and no longer wants to violently attack her.

 

All I know is that I love anyone (with a preference for women) regardless of gender. I would say gender does matter to me since I prefer women, but I would love anyone regardless, and would gladly date women, men, and everyone in-between. not only this, but if my love transitioned, I would still love them.

 

In this case, Natasha and her friends.

Natasha is one of the "owners" of Catherine, who she decides to treat as a "pet" because she reminds her of a cat (hence the name CATherine). Natasha and her friends invite Catherine into the friend group and they all live together, but Catherine is treated badly there and Natasha makes a plan to kill Catherine.

She doesn't see Catherine as a person, but as an actual animal, a tool, and a nuisance, and wants to badly mistreat her which ends up traumatizing her.

 

I see people “being led on” a lot and I wonder, what are some actual signs of leading someone on in a relationship?

My 2 yr relationship with my GF is very good, I’m just curious because I do hear the phrase a lot without knowing the literal signs of it.

I also may have been “led on” before by exes.

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