Honesty about what specifically?
In this case, mainly Lemmy's federation is broken + we need more freedom of speech
Across all cases, "we need more freedom of speech" is a pretty common example of what specifically I get banned from online discussion for being honest about
Most people anywhere I've been, online or offline, are anti-honesty, so when you say that's hard for you to understand, it's like you're either from a very sheltered place that makes you completely blind to the US, or like you're another American that's anti-honesty and super manipulative about it
So, am I allowed to say "fuck off, rightoid" for implying I'm a "chud," or is the instance I moved to still not safe for me to insult you back from - whereas you're safe to insult me because you have your fellow, what I hope I'm allowed to call (as I see you and them), rightoids to back you up?