laurel

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[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 month ago

Echoing solarpunk! Along those same lines is “hopepunk”. I like to think of my media consumption in a similar way to my diet and consider how much I need from different areas to stay balanced. It is hard to fully escape the doomerism narratives but seeking out generative, hopeful narratives has made a difference in how much I find myself disrupted by them. Also poetry can be a great way to explore the heavier subjects and often where I head when I get overwhelmed.

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 3 points 6 months ago

I enjoy documentaries where the footage comes from people who are shooting without a very good reason to be doing so. Top picks are likely:

  • Exit Through the Gift Shop
  • Grizzly Man

Very different reasons I liked these. And liked is maybe the wrong word for Grizzly Man.

Would love to suggestions of similar if anybody in this thread has favs.

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

We are definitely struggling against an unhealthy culture that makes this extraordinarily challenging. I think there is a misunderstanding where we think accepting greater support will decrease our personal autonomy and risk us being too reliant on others. However moving towards healthy interdependence should - and can - be an experience that actually frees the individual to experience more opportunity, greater stability, enhanced relationships, etc.

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Thank you for being such a wonderful parent, listening to your daughter, and taking all of these proactive steps to help build her back up. I agree this is not therapy and it's devastating to hear that the school thought this was appropriate. Placing her in group therapy with the offenders implies she was somehow responsible for being a victim. As a former child and daughter who struggled to be heard, especially at 13, I really appreciate you for hearing her now and doing something about it now. This makes such a difference.

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Personally, I feel like it would be great to normalize therapeutic supports to such an extent that we can let go of the idea they represent something being "wrong" with anybody. We have collectively developed this bizarre sense that we shouldn't need each other, that you should have to face your challenges on your own.

If you are personally in the position where therapy is accessible to you, I encourage you to go for it - even if there is "nothing wrong with you" (lol) - and then recommend it to others, talk about how it helps you grow and learn, etc. The mental health world is still fraught with challenging, dangerous stigmas and the best way to improve that is to show others that it's the stigmas that are dangerous, not the supports.

 

The title. My inability to actively keep my workspaces organized is driving me insane and I would love to just set it & forget it.

Any advice is appreciated!

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

I found DBT tremendously helpful for learning how to navigate unstructured territory without becoming agitated by it. I have noticed my frustration tends to build up because I resist feeling uncomfortable, not because I am actually just uncomfortable. It’s counterintuitive and takes practice but it’s been eye opening how much something as deceptively simple as “accept discomfort” actually helps.

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Omnivore has been great so far for me. And Obsidian integration is flawless

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Holy shit this is amazing. Stunning capture too! What did you use to ID?

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 years ago
[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago

Seems like the main purpose is so users always control & own their own content, sell access/ownership/etc.? This is a full and pretty detailed explanation on the LBRY protocol if you want to really dig in: https://lbry.com/what

[–] laurel@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 years ago (5 children)

https://odysee.com/ is blockchain-based, built on LBRY. It appears to have similar features for discovery, interaction, etc. as YouTube. Still testing it out personally to see how it actually performs though!

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