relation_anon4238

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[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I’m not yet in college.

You can take courses that you weren’t happy with the grades on.

thanks!

Thank you! My best friend thinks he’s cute!

[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

My high school GPA was 3.7

[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 6 points 5 days ago (3 children)
 

I’m 18 years old and graduated high school. I plan to go to college, but I’m curious what you need to graduate cum laude because I heard someone (clearly older than me) say they graduated cum laude.

He’s very attractive to me and his personality is great!

[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 5 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Thank you so much!! Attractiveness truly doesn’t matter to me. (I mean, it does to an extent, if they’re covered in oozing sores like someone said, I would care.) But I do find him attractive physically and personalitywise!!

To me, he looks like your typical young man and my perfect fiancé ❤️.

It’s just dad and a friend, thanks :) 😊

 

Obviously like the other questions like this say, it’s not a diagnosis. Plus, this guy refuses help, but I know it’s surely something his behavior indicates.

According to my fiancé, he:

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  • engages in risky behaviors (like self-harm)

  • explosive fits of anger

  • fits of depression

  • fears abandonment

  • abusive and controlling behavior (beats people up, doesn’t want his family talking to others, scared his wife will cheat on him)

  • hears voices in his head telling him to kill loved ones

 

I have a friend (18M) who always tells me when someone is being rude. Specifically it was one dude in senior year. I have since graduated. I am no longer in high school.

It doesn’t seem to be from a place of cruelty but rather ignorance and trying to be “funny” by going “ahahaha autistic woman hahahaha!”

The school counselor, however, told him to point that out was unintentionally offensive (He is also autistic and can’t understand certain social things sometimes.)

My friend is blunt, my dad is rude

[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 9 points 6 days ago (3 children)

“Ew, he’s ugly/He’s ugly, you can do better.”

[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

It’s ok 🫂

I agree with you.

Exactly! And my fiancé has neither

[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 25 points 6 days ago (6 children)

My dad included 😭

 

Like, seriously, I have had a few people talk about how my fiancé wasn’t conventionally attractive, but he’s attractive to me :)

Plus, he’s good to me, and I don’t date for looks. I’ve had conventionally attractive exes too who have been horrible people, so…

 

Like, no, you trying to beat me up every time I don’t do what you want can’t be excused with “just being mad”.

 

I’m looking for a region that speaks both Portuguese and Spanish but also maybe another similar, less spoken Romance language.

It can have similar culture but also different, unique culture. Either has to be in Spain or Portugal or nearby them so I could just drive to either country.

 

I can confidently say that I speak Portuguese, Spanish, and English to varying degrees. However, at a beginner level, I know Norwegian, Italian, and Polish. I also am probably at a very beginner level in Russian and French, both of which I’m learning and getting better at. I’m conversing with French people.

My fiancé says I’m a polyglot, but I don’t know if I’m just trilingual or not.

 

To me, money isn’t everything. It’d be nice if I got something that cost a lot, but I’d also be fine with something cheap as long as it’s high-quality and not like a Temu ring or something.

We got each other the same ring off Amazon for $12.😂 😅

 

I’m aware that this is probably a thing many people struggle with, their loved ones in the military. I’m one of them.

I’m proud of my gentlemanly fiancé. After all, he’s joining the military. But that’s the thing, after he turns 18, he will be signing up. My parents are very strict and we cannot actually see each other in person unless it’s somehow not considered a “date”. I have to be 21 to actually go on dates even if I am legally considered old enough.

Even so, he will be in the military, where there will not be a lot of time to go on dates.

I will not break up with him over this like one of his exes did. I am very proud that he’s joining, but I don’t know what to do when he’s away or to cope with loss.

Whatever I do, I won’t lose feelings for him.

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