WomensStuff

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Women only trans inclusive This is an inclusive community for all things women. Whether you're here for make up tips, feminism or just friendly chit chat, we've got you covered.

Rules…

  1. Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women's community is a good fit for them.
  2. Don’t be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice.
  3. Don’t hate on groups, hatefilled talk about groups is not allowed. Ever.
  4. No governmental politics, so no talk of Trump actions etc. We recommend Feminism@beehaw.org for that, but here is an escape from it.
  5. New accounts or users with few comments may have their posts removed to prevent spam and bad-faith participation.

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ONLY WOMEN AND TRANS+ WOMEN INC NON BINARY ARE ALLOWED TO POST. WE ARE A WOMEN ONLY COMMUNITY

See full rules below

Welcome to WomensStuff! We are here for all things women. Examples include…

Fashion, style, make up Feminism, patriarchy Friendly chit chat with other women. Rules…

Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (eg non binary) is welcome Don’t be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice. Don’t hate on groups, hatefilled talk about groups is not allowed. Ever. No governmental politics, so no talk of Trump actions etc. We recommend Feminism@beehaw.org for that, but here is an escape from it. Please see our twinned community !dadforaminute@lemmy.world They’re WomensStuff’s official male cheerleaders, and great for when you need dad advice or hugs… They’re also a great way for male posters to support women.

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Missing your dad? Horrendous at DIY, car mechanics etc? Want a dad hug? Check out our twin community !dadforaminute@lemmy.world. It’s a bunch of dads giving advice and support to anyone that needs it.

They’re really patient, really nice and they really want to help. They’re WomensStuff’s official male cheerleaders and genuine supporters.

Give it a go!

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June is pride month! The T often gets forgotten or excluded in the LGBT community. How included do you feel?

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Hi friends! I'm looking to buy a fragrance and am hoping you guys might have some suggestions.

I want something that screams "peach" without being powdery or overly floral. I'm hoping for something gourmand/lactic (but not overly sweet!), fruity, or lightly floral (wearable in the daytime), or to go in another direction completely, something peach with spice, an evening scent sort of like Angel Share Paradis by Kilian (but peach instead of raspberry).

I'm more interested in perfumes, less interested in body sprays, but will give anything a shot.

Things I've already tried include Phlur's Apricot Privée, Phlur's Peach Skin, and Ellis Brooklyn's Peaches. Out of these, I like Peaches the most, but it's kind of a simple scent. I'd like something a little more complex. I had high hopes for Peach Skin but the sandalwood is really overwhelming (it smells so powdery!). And Apricot Privée is more complex but also smells very powdery and although it's spicy, I feel like it's an old-fashioned kind of spicy, if that makes sense.

And if there's not a single fragrance that fits the bill, I could try layering Peaches with something else. Maybe with Angel Share, or with an amber?

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Panel 1 Man and woman in office clothes in a break room.

Man: So, if you were alone in a forest, would you rather run into a strange man… or a bear?

Panel 2 Woman: Oh, hmm… I think the bear.

Man (angry): How can you say that?

(Bear looking quizzically through the window)

Panel 3 Man (angry): You're demonizing men! It's misandry!

Panel 4 Woman: Good point. Why would I ever hear men's reactions?

Man: Exactly! …where did the honey go?

Panel 5 Woman and bear sharing tea

Woman: At least if you maul me, pepper won't say I made it up or I'm misinterpreting.

Bear: I hear you

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Hey all, how are you accessing lemmy and can you see the pinned post with the rules? It shows for me on some accounts and apps but not all.

Admin are being amazing (I ❤️ blahaj) and we're working on some anti trolling stuff behind the scenes. Loads of you have been doing stuff to protect our members which I really appreciate. You're an incredible bunch of people and I'm so glad to have you here

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Childhoods vary, and some are awful, but you always learn things! What about your childhood made you strong? Did your parents teach you valuable skills? Did you pick up things from peers? Observe things? Tell us below!

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It's frrriiidaaayyy! Today's game is simple. People comment with a word, and the next person says a word that's the opposite, or close as you can get to one. Either reply to comments with opposite words or start your own comment chain with a word.

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We rightly warn each other about red flags, but what's a green flag? There's some things that really show someone is a good choice.

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About the move (piefed.blahaj.zone)
submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone
 
 

Hey all!

As you can see we've moved house. In short, we'd had enough of members being upset by the Manosphere jumping in and being nasty. If your account isnt on piefed youll see old posts in the old comm, and new in the new. If youre on piefed you can see old in the new and you can help at piefed_help@piefed.social

Advantages of blahaj are...

  1. There's no downvoting, so people can't be harassed by downvote.
  2. There's really heavy moderating, blahaj pre-emptively bans known trolls and has zero tolerance on discrimination.
  3. Ada is fantastically supportive and really cares about creating a safe space.
  4. With piefed we can transfer the comm.

Apologies for not putting it to a vote or giving you the heads up. I didn't want to give the Manosphere a chance to cause issues before we went, or try to scupper the move altogether.

There are a couple of posts that vanished in the move and there's likely to be teething problems. But I'm feeling good about there being less stress long term. Just want to say a huge heartfelt thanks to Ada for all her hard work during the move! Ada you've been amazing 👏 🤩 ❤️

Any questions?

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I've found my Halloween getup (presuming I can get it in my size!):

A mannequin displays an elaborate gothic-inspired outfit set against a shimmering silver tinsel backdrop. The ensemble features a deep red, faux leather corset adorned with black spikes at chest level and silver grommets down the front, fastened at the bottom with metal clasps. The corset is paired with a matching ruched mini skirt made of a stretchy, semi-sheer mesh fabric, gathered with black eyelets and rings. Draped over the shoulders is a dramatic black satin and lace bolero with voluminous bell sleeves, trimmed with ruffled red chiffon. Accessories include a large silver rose pendant at the neck, layered black bead chains, a wide belt with a large metal O-ring, and an ankh charm. To the left, a black Christmas tree decorated with white skulls and silver tinsel adds to the dark, theatrical atmosphere.

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I've been thinking about getting some nail polish since my job involves a lot of typing and I always seem to do better about not breaking my nails if they're painted. And I want something different, and I was looking at ILNP's chromatic polishes, and I'm wondering... has anybody tried them? Or, anything else like that, with a fun gimmick?

I didn't want my first post here to be something stereotypically femme but eff it. It's on my mind.

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Hey all! It takes a few days for info to come over. Whose here?

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