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hey i like your overall points but i need to point out that it's SO much more than "rolling the dice". i do agree that quality over quantity is more important when dating. and that means not just "how good are they" but really "what kind of person are they?"
you may have 3 dates a week via apps, but they're all with people who use dating apps, in a dating app context. not trying to put anyone down, but it's just different than meeting a friend of a friend at game night or something. so to use your dice metaphor, it's more like praying for a nat 20 while rolling d6s.
It's more like "friend of a friend" is a +2 circumstance bonus, and you're rolling 1d20 + Investigation vs DC 17. It helps, but it's pretty small. You can stack bonuses on your profile (eg: Good Pictures +3, Good Profile Text +2) to get a similar effect.
Also a lot of my friends' friends aren't people I'd want to date.
There are so many people using dating apps in 2025, it's not a big filter. If this was 1997, then "meeting people online" would in fact be a very small slice of the population.