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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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[–] CompostMaterial@lemmy.world 51 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

I constantly refer to my parents and in-laws as children. Why? Because they behave exactly like my 11 year old. They have no critical reasoning skills, no emotional intelligence, are easily offended, and can not be reliability left on their own without screwing something up.

At some point around retirement age, humans seem to cognitively revert back to children and those of us in middle adulthood are left to parent our actual children and our childish parents.

Unfortunately I think that's just our parents and not all old people. My parents are the same way, but it seems to me more that maturing is a choice and active process that requires effort, and many people are unwilling to put in the work and vigilance required and it leads to the above

I don't think they're children, I think they're selfish lazy assholes, but the result that they need to be treated like children is the same

[–] thingAmaBob@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago

At some point around retirement age, humans seem to cognitively revert back to children

I haven’t seen that happen to everyone I know around that age. Many still have their wits about them and see the current state of affairs as a clown show. Some are even out here on the streets protesting.

[–] lord_ryvan@ttrpg.network 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

At some point around retirement age, humans seem to cognitively revert back to children

I know someone who works in a elderly care home, she says roughly the same: "Ouderen verkindsen" (elderly turn into children)

Your cognitive abilities really do seem to diminish after a certain point, no matter where. It's annoying they think they're adults and demand respect...

[–] MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

My great grandmother (meemaw) had severe dementia, and one time in a moment of clarity she said I believe that you're a child twice, at the beginning and the end.

She lived to 96. Luckily my grandparents that I loved, her daughter (mamaw) and her daughter's husband (papaw), died relatively sooner once dementia set it. Unfortunately my grandpa lived with it for about ten years but it was only a couple years for my grandma. In great grandma's case, she was falling into dementia around the time I was born.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

At some point around retirement age, humans seem to cognitively revert back to children and those of us in middle adulthood are left to parent our actual children and our childish parents.

Is this true, or is this just (mostly) boomers?