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[–] AllonzeeLV@lemmy.world 56 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

Just to clarify though, not a first date question.

More like third.

[–] ThrowawayPermanente@sh.itjust.works 61 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Disagree. Put it in your profile. Filter hard and early.

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 9 points 2 years ago

Both methods acceptable, but if it wasn't on the profile then it definitely shouldn't be brought up on the first date

[–] metallic_z3r0@infosec.pub 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

You want to get their interest, but as this might be one of those deal breaker questions, you should get it out of the way early. There's no shame in breaking up from an incompatibility in attraction or sexual preference, but there should be some shame at sticking with it expecting another person to change for you.

[–] Waraugh@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 years ago

My girlfriend hates anal but likes to role play rape so it works out.