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[–] frog_brawler@lemmy.world 21 points 6 days ago

Ooooh story time…

I worked for a small company in 2017/2018 that had recently expanded its building and added offices into their second floor, which had previously been a storage area. The second floor offices didn’t have any windows, but is also the spot that they decided IT would go.

One day I came in and the fluorescent lights didn’t turn on. There happened to be some random old lamp (I think from the 60’s or 70’s) in a storage closet so I grabbed it and put it on the intersection of 4 cubicles to light the area. There were only 6 IT people that worked in the area and as people were coming into work, no one mentioned the light. We all just did our work.

Halfway though the day, one of our senior devs asked “hey, so what’s with the light?”

I let him know the overhead lights didn’t come on when I got here this morning so I just grabbed a lamp.

5 of us discussing the lighting situation all vocally said “yea, this is much better, the fluorescent lights suck.” One person was quiet.

The overhead lights were “fixed” not too long after but people started opting for turning them off in favor of the lamp. This upset 1 of the 6 IT people working in the area.

It eventually became an HR issue, and the one person won; to the detriment of the other 5.

I ended up quitting about 2 weeks after that, not from the light issue; but I let them believe it was a large contributing factor in the exit interview.

[–] xor@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 6 days ago (3 children)

you don’t need to be neurodivergent to appreciate the dark….
for example, you could be one of those mole people with no pigment (i.e. northern white peoples)….

[–] Abnorc@lemm.ee 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

You could also be a radiologist.

[–] xor@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 6 days ago

thanks… you’re right! i’m going to go to school for radiology!

Old school photographer

[–] HugeNerd@lemmy.ca 3 points 6 days ago (2 children)

No pigment? They're transparent?

[–] Opisek@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

Think about it. Have you ever seen one in person?

[–] xor@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 6 days ago

i was speaking in hyperbole, but, lack of pigment doesn’t make you transparent.
see also: albinos.

[–] Hikuro93@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Hum... Yeah... That'd be me. The creature of the night. Not rave n' disco night... More like, night night. Even during the day.

[–] Opisek@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago
[–] Aksamit@slrpnk.net 3 points 6 days ago

I find myself wearing my sunnies indoors more often than not. On days I forget and grab my regular glasses, switching over to the tinted lenses is literal full body relief as the light input is reduced.

[–] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 108 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Coworkers like 75% spectrum. Office is DARK

When we have meetings, boss comes in and opens the blinds. We scurry around like roaches

[–] TexasDrunk@lemmy.world 60 points 1 week ago (1 children)

We used to keep the light off in the tech bullpen. There were no windows but enough lights from the screens to keep people from tripping over themselves walking to their desks. Fucking director level POS hated it. When he didn't have anything to do he'd come back there and loudly exclaim "I don't see how y'all can work in the dark!"

It's almost like different people work different ways and have different levels of comfort. I can deal with either just fine but damn, don't just loudly pronounce shit and change the environment immediately. That absolutely stops pretty much everyone from working because they want to bitch about how it's different now.

I think it was 50/50 not giving a shit about the comfort of others and wanting attention because he was as useless as a bag of used microplastics.

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 25 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Lol people see me in the dark with a laptop and backlit keyboard and are like "how can you see / read in the dark?

Like wtf it's backlit. IDC what's happening in this - until recently - otherwise uninhabited room.

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[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 63 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Can you imagine if we just started making snarky comments and turning off lights that people purposely put on? Wow, that'd be so rude! Right? Right??

[–] dumbass@leminal.space 40 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Why are you standing in a brightly lit room, do you need to be seen or something?

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[–] glimse@lemmy.world 60 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Doesn't matter if they're neurodivergent at all, it's rude to flashbang anyone like that

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[–] SlippiHUD@lemmy.world 53 points 1 week ago (6 children)

90% of the time, the explanation is "I was doing a thing that didnt require external light source and didnt notice the sun went down."

[–] Zenith@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago

lol I don’t bother to explain I usually just say “nothing” I don’t owe anyone an explanation for why I want the lights off

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[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 44 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Also, we sometimes like the dark.

Would you like it if you were in a room with a comfortable lighting level and changed the lighting level to suit ourselves without saying anything first?

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[–] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 43 points 1 week ago

“Why don’t you ever come out of your room?” flashbacks, lol

[–] WanderingThoughts@europe.pub 43 points 1 week ago (3 children)

"I rule from the shadows" is my usual response.

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 23 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I like to sit in my desolate room. No lights. No music. Just anger.

[–] Zenith@lemm.ee 13 points 1 week ago

I had to spend six months in the ICU and I always had the lights off and no sound, not tv or music, no talking, all the staff would comment on it or ask if I wanted them to turn things on for the first few months but by the end they were always telling me how my room was so peaceful and they actually preferred it to other patients rooms. I just want peace!!

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

You've killed everyone.
You're away forever, but you're feeling better?

How do you feel, what do you say? In the end it all goes away

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