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[–] whaleross@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Voluntarily or involuntary?

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Voluntarily. Having a place would cost a lot of money and if I made any money I would have to spend all of it on the place. This is just cheaper.

[–] whaleross@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Sleeping in a car or someone else's house doesn't have any rent. You don't have to pay for things like electricity, gas or water if you don't have a place of your own.

[–] x00z@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That's not just a drifter. That's a freeloader.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Free loading of who? How is a friend during you a favor free loading? What if I just like hanging out with you my friends?

[–] whaleross@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

A friend helping out in an emergency for a few days, weeks or mayyybe months is one thing. Systematically living on somebody else's bill only to save your own expenses is something else.

You're of course free to do what you want, but don't be surprised if your friends get tired of you.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 month ago

I'm not "Systematically living on somebody else’s bill" I just sleep over at my friend's every now and then.

[–] DrSleepless@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago (7 children)

How do you avoid being harassed by cops?

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[–] Justathroughdaway@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What does the drifter lifestyle consist of?

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 month ago (4 children)

An intricate knowledge of Wi-fi hotspots, meeting a lot of new and interesting people, always sleeping somewhere new, a lot of hotels and restaurants and a lot of doing odd jobs for money.

[–] Justathroughdaway@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Doesn't sound that different to my life.

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 2 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 7 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Do you and your buddy arrive in town, get temporary dishwasher jobs, befriend locals and solve their personal problems, then leave town in your Corvette with background music?

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm more likely to do stuff like mowing lawns or washing cars and yes I befriend locals. I've got friends all over. Helping them with their personal problems not so much.

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Just jokin' with ya, I was referring to a very old TV show called Route 66, about two buddies who drifted from town to town in a corvette. They lived hand to mouth and found drama wherever they went. You actually sound like you've found the life that suits you, and I admire that. If you're ever in Seattle DM me!

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[–] who@feddit.org 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

In what part(s) of the world do you live?

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] JakoJakoJako13@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

East or West? How close are you to the cities? Not trying to dox you or anything. I'm in PA as well. If I was in your situation I don't think I would stay in the state.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I live East pretty close to the cities. I go there every now and then but I make sure I never stay long.

"If I was in your situation I don’t think I would stay in the state."

I see where you're coming from. It's wild out here.

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[–] Rin@lemm.ee 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I feel bad for your situation. Sorry if i'm only allowed one question but if not I have a couple?

  • Do you have a car? (I've tried sleeping in my car and it fucking sucked every time i did, no matter what)

  • What are your favourite/worst kind of places to spend nights?

  • Do you travel far away frequently?

  • Any cool facts about anything at all?

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 3 points 3 weeks ago

Don't feel bad. I like my life. Also you can ask as many questions as you want.

Do you have a car? (I’ve tried sleeping in my car and it fucking sucked every time i did, no matter what)

Yes I do.

"What are your favourite/worst kind of places to spend nights?"

I love having sleep overs. Quality varies depending on where I'm having the sleep over. Hotels if I'm welling to treat myself. The worse places are my car and homeless shelters.

"Do you travel far away frequently?"

No, I mostly travel around my hometown or maybe New York. That's about it.

"Any cool facts about anything at all?"

I once saw a guy win a fight against two guys at the same time. That was some Chuck Norris stuff.

[–] Didros@beehaw.org 4 points 1 month ago (4 children)
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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

At what age would you say it would become unsustainable. Mainly thinking failing health.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

I would say once you are too old and can't take of yourself so about 70.

[–] heyWhatsay@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 month ago

Ever try hammock camping?

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What was it like being on Portal and working with Dave?

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 points 1 month ago

Portal was a show on TechTV mixing live action with macinema exclusively using popular MMORPGs of the time. One of the recurring video game heroes of the show was The Drifter. The main, actual human character, was Dave.

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