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[–] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 3 points 6 hours ago

Critical Thinking Skills

[–] ADandHD@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 11 hours ago

Basic problem solving. Even just the ability to Google something seems to be lost on so many people.

[–] leftzero@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 11 hours ago

Reading the screen.

Seriously, about 90% of computer problems would be solved if people just read the fucking screen.

[–] SnarkoPolo@lemm.ee 10 points 13 hours ago

A sense of community, at least in the states. We have become a nation of de facto sovereign citizens, everyone competing with everyone. A society can't last long without social responsibility.

[–] reddig33@lemmy.world 5 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] PartyAt15thAndSummit@lemmy.zip 2 points 10 hours ago

It's true. Habitually saying "please." thank you," "hello" to people can open a lot of doors. Also, it's just amazing in an awful way just how many people are not doing this.

[–] MangoPenguin@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 19 hours ago

Basic troubleshooting and repair knowledge. Like just how to use a multimeter and the basics of how electricity works and how to repair something.

Honestly just basic knowledge of everything in our daily lives would be useful. People should understand how their phone works and how it gets internet access, how their car works, and stuff like that.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 3 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

literacy, and essay writing. they almost neve rpush it MS or HS anymore.

[–] bbiva@lemmynsfw.com 7 points 17 hours ago

Map reading/Orienteering - Most people are literally lost without GPS

[–] hedge_lord@lemmy.world 12 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (1 children)

I think that we should require more humanities courses for STEM degrees. I had to take some english courses but that was about it. Seems like a lot of STEM-lords (particularly the computer ones) need to take a cultural anthropology course and chill out a little. Or philosophy but that risks making them worse.

[–] Jankatarch@lemmy.world 6 points 20 hours ago

If ethics courses actually worked business majors would be much more priority no?

[–] Almacca@aussie.zone 6 points 18 hours ago
[–] joel_feila@lemmy.world 5 points 19 hours ago

Basic it skills

[–] Chadus_Maximus@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

How to build a usable nuclear fusion power plant. Zero is way too many for such a difficult task.

[–] Unsaved5831@lemm.ee 18 points 1 day ago

Listening and empathy. Putting themselves in others' shoes instead of just seeing/speaking/thinking about I, me and myself.

Media literacy and reading comprehension. Specifically, the ability to infer an intended target audience for a particular piece of work. A large part of media literacy is being able to view a piece of media, and infer the intended audience. Maybe you see an ad for pink razors, and can infer that it is aimed at women who shave. But that’s just a simple example. It should also extend to things like internet comments.

People have become so accustomed to laser-focused algorithms determining our media consumption. Before, people would see a video or comment they didn’t resonate with, infer that it wasn’t aimed at them, and move the fuck on. But now, people are so used to their algorithm being dialed in. It is to the point that encountering things you don’t vibe with is outright jarring. People don’t just move on anymore. They get aggressive.

Maybe I make a reel about the proper way to throw a baseball. I’ll inevitably get at least one or two “but what about me? I’m in a wheelchair, on crutches, have a bad shoulder, have bad eyesight and can’t aim, etc… Before, those people would have gone “this clearly isn’t aimed at me” and moved the fuck on. But now they make a point of going “but you didn’t make this specifically for me.

It has gotten so bad that content creators have started adding disclaimers to their videos, news articles, opinion pieces, etc... It’s fairly common to see quick “and before I get started, this video is just for [target demographic]” as if it’s a cutesy little thing. But the reality is that if they don’t add that disclaimer, they’ll be inundated with “but what about [outlier that the content clearly wasn’t directed at]” types of responses.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 34 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

They should teach basic philosophy in schools; common formal fallacies and such.

[–] PartyAt15thAndSummit@lemmy.zip 1 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

They teach it at Turkish schools.

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[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 77 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Critical thinking. Religion and our education system beat curiosity out of people and they end up being unable to process information on their own.

Also driving. People can't stay in their own lanes, stop three car lengths from an intersection because they don't understand that the 'see the tires in front of you' made sense in low sedans with sloped hoods and not their massive SUVs with flat hood, and don't bother signaling when changing lanes slowly.

[–] magic_lobster_party@fedia.io 33 points 2 days ago

One thing many forget about critical thinking is to also be critical of your own thoughts as well. Too many people think it’s only about attacking other people’s opinion.

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Financial literacy

[–] Deconceptualist@lemm.ee 31 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Number 1 by far is knowing how to separate your opinions from your identity.

I've been thinking about this for years and I can't shake the thought that identity politics is the root of most major problems in western society (esp. US). It means people interpret criticism of their opinions as personal attacks instead. This overblown defensive reaction leads to turning around and conflating the opinions of others with their worth as human beings.

Yes, there some truth to that. If you hold hateful & bigoted opinions, I would say that makes you a shit person. But you're not necessarily condemned to that forever, because opinions can potentially change. This is tied in with Karl Popper's "Paradox of Tolerance", i.e. ideas should be tolerated unless they themselves are so intolerant as to undermine the wider marketplace of ideas.

When we equate (potentially temporary) opinions of others with immutable value, that's what leads to dehumanizing them and taking away their fundamental rights. And as has always been the case throughout history, the burden falls primarily on vulnerable groups (immigrants, ethnic or social minorities, children and the elderly, etc).

People need to understand that YOU ARE NOT YOUR OPINION. Others can and should criticize your opinions, but that doesn't mean they are attacking you personally. Defend the opinions, but don't turn around and go ad-hominem in response. And for fuck's sake, unless an opinion is so abhorrent or intolerant that it threatens someone else's existence (e.g. Nazis), you don't get to take away the holder's rights to citizenship, food, shelter, healthcare, etc.

EDIT: And yes I do consider this a skill that people have to learn. I think most should be capable by maybe... age 7.

[–] ptz@dubvee.org 77 points 2 days ago (9 children)

Is nuance a skill?

Like, the world isn't black and white, left and right, right and wrong, etc, but too many people want to simplify complex issues down into binary choices and leave out any trace of nuance.

[–] athairmor@lemmy.world 21 points 2 days ago (4 children)

We live in a hyperbolic age. People’s attention has been commodified so almost all messaging is exaggerated to pull attention to one pole or another. Nuance and patient, thoughtful debate can’t live in that atmosphere.

[–] OceanSoap@lemmy.world 3 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

Not to mention we're in a period of morality panic. We've been brainwashed to think there are only good and bad, either with us on all thoughts or against. We've been sucked into a hard lined good vs. evil plot, except everyone is wrong.

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[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 53 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (11 children)

I might as well go first: Basic troubleshooting and reasoning.

I mean, we're not talking debugging assembly language here. But at least you should be able to reply correctly to the question "is it dead or faulty?" when it comes to a computer. And when a your car has a weird noise, at least try to locate it for an obvious cause such as something rolling around under your seat.

EDIT: And one important aspect of troubleshooting many people don't get is how to narrow down the problem. Let's say your wifi isn't working - have you checked on any other device whether it's working there? Someone else mentioned binary search which has a lot of overlap with this.

[–] DirigibleProtein@aussie.zone 31 points 2 days ago (4 children)

“I don’t know what the error said, I clicked ok and it went away. Now fix it”.

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[–] co_bymusic@lemm.ee 9 points 1 day ago

How to handle criticism. To take the best from it, learn from it, try to become more of what is important to yourself and leave the rest.

It's either not taking it at all, thinking everyone is wrong... or it's giving it to much attention. Like thinking the opinion of people that you don't respect at all, that you don't even like counts too. You'll never be right for everyone. But being criticised by people that care to make your life better is actually precious.

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 25 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Basic sewing

Also empathy

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sewing. Learn to sew! It's very helpful!

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[–] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Basic cooking skills

Reading comprehension

Listening to someone speak without interrupting

Remembering to let other people speak when having a conversation

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[–] snek_boi@lemmy.ml 18 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (4 children)

People have said “critical thinking”. I agree, but we can be more specific than that:

  • Formal logic to think clearly
  • Relational frame training to think fluidly
  • Human cognitive bias awareness and mitigation strategies to avoid magical thinking or otherwise systematic cognitive errors
  • Discourse Analysis to be critical of any message https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LKiaYBVAEUk&pp=
  • Mindfulness and acceptance skills to engage with what our thoughts and body tell us, regardless of whether it’s painful or difficult
  • Visible Thinking Routines to make thinking and communication with others easier
  • Research design (Joseph A. Maxwell) and system design (How to Design Programs) to seek information critically and how to systematically tackle challenges
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[–] DirigibleProtein@aussie.zone 31 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Being aware of what’s around you. Whether driving and not looking before pulling out, blocking the middle of the supermarket aisle, stopping in the doorway, standing in the middle of the footpath playing with your phone; so many people are completely oblivious. The world doesn’t revolve around you, have some ordinary consideration and manners.

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[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 31 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Making constructive, non-adhominem critique, and accepting such critique. Maybe calm debate/discussion in general.

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[–] Kyle_The_G@lemmy.world 29 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Swimming, it'll save your life

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[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 16 points 2 days ago (4 children)

The ability to process information. It seems like the reason need AI to summarize different things is because they never learned how to do it themselves.

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[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 19 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Cooking. I don't mean heating up prepared food. I mean taking raw produce, spices, herbs, and starches to make your own food. Doesn't need to be extravagant. Start with an omelette or maybe properly made scrambled eggs. Move on to other "easy" dishes like grilled cheese sandwiches and spaghetti. I am constantly amazed when I hear fully grown adults saying shit like, "I could never make anything like Beef Wellington." Yes you can, just try and fail a few times!

[–] hedge_lord@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I feel that if people knew how much effort it takes to create their food products, they might be more hesitant to waste them. Even with things as simple as making bread! It's not just something that appears on a shelf, it's the result of whole process and should be valued as such.

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 2 points 14 hours ago

I agree, but bread and noodles were damn near the first stable foodstuffs we discovered. I suppose beer would be the next stable food we discovered worldwide. I only have an issue because you're talking about a food that literally every single civilization discovered independently, so bread as we know it, isn't bread as an all encompassing concept.

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[–] acidbattery@lemm.ee 22 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Communication. So many issues could be resolved by just talking to the person clearly and calmly instead of assuming they can read your mind and getting upset when they don’t respond the way you played out in your mind.

De-escalation. Even if you’re right, there’s a time and place where you need to let it go and revisit it at a more appropriate moment.

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[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

How to turn greenhouse gasses into pure drinking water. I wish I knew how to do that.

[–] GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Reading comprehension. Not a day goes by where i don't see someone respond to a comment that they clearly did not understand completely.

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