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[–] JPSound@lemmy.world 44 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

Rape. It was rape. Call it what it is. The longer we tiptoe around teachers having sex with kids, the longer the problem will exist. She raped a kid.

[–] jsomae@lemmy.ml 9 points 6 hours ago

Statutory rape in particular. We need to normalize the usage of the term statutory rape.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 20 points 11 hours ago (3 children)

I don't get this. Not even high school girls find high school boys attractive. How could a grown woman? And what's with the language, the word is raped or sexually abused/assaulted, 16 year old here is assumed unable to consent to sex with any adult.

[–] SpacetimeMachine@lemmy.world 6 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

They are almost assuredly turned on by the power dynamic, not necessarily the student themselves.

[–] Croquette@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 hours ago

I have never thought of it that way and it makes sense.

[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

In some jurisdictions maybe, but only if it's close in age. Like 16 and 18. 26 is very upsetting, what if she got pregnant and kept the child?

[–] KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I mean, let’s be honest here. In high school there was always at least one overly good looking guy everyone thought would become a model.

Doesn’t excuse the teacher for raping him though. I can be around beautiful people all day long and manage to not have sex with them just fine, nevermind the act being illegal.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

We are all very aware how easy it is for you to manage that.

[–] KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 5 hours ago

Being ugly helps but the point stands. :D

[–] JPSound@lemmy.world 10 points 10 hours ago

Rape. It was rape. Call it what it is. The longer we tiptoe around teachers having sex with kids, the longer the problem will exist. She raped a kid.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 22 points 16 hours ago

How stupid do you have to be to tell a coworker that you raped a kid. Hey, how was your weekend? Guess what I did that's super illegal?

[–] TheEighthDoctor@lemmy.zip 33 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
[–] dgbbad@lemmy.zip 8 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

As someone who works IT at a school, this is far too common. I've ignored many a new teacher coming up to me with questions because I thought they were students, and I ignore students at all cost. This has happened in the intermediate buildings. You just can't know how old anyone is anymore, so I assume everyone is underage until proven beyond a shadow of a doubt.

[–] IndustryStandard@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Why do you ignore students at all cost

[–] dgbbad@lemmy.zip 8 points 7 hours ago

Bc they are dumb, and say dumb shit. And I'm not responding to their nonsense. If I keep my mouth shut, nobody can lie and say I said anything I didn't say. We have cameras everywhere, so it's easy to prove I ignored them and walked on by. I've heard too many horror stories of students getting pissed at their teachers and making up lies and getting them fired. I don't want any part of that. I'm here to fix shit and go home.

Story for justification:

My step sisters kid had a bday party that my mom and step dad talked me into going to bc it was at a restaurant I really liked. I sat on the far end with my mom and step dad, didn't really interact with anyone but them as I didn't really know anybody. Kid had one of her friends there that apparently went to the high school where I work.

A week later I'm working in the high school when this student comes up to me and says, "Hey, didn't we have dinner last week?“ in the front of a classroom, loudly.

I had completely forgotten about the bday all together at this point, and definitely didn't recognize this kid bc I was sat on the opposite end of the loooong table of like 20 people, most of whom I didn't know.

I don't even remember what I said tbh. I just remember the feeling of panic, then her eventually going on to say it was for so and so's bday.

It was definitely just done to be funny and to get a rise out of her friends, but that kinda shit can go bad if heard out of context, and I like my job and don't want to risk it over kids being dumb.

[–] DocMcStuffin@lemmy.world 244 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That's an interesting way of saying statutory rape.

[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 137 points 1 day ago (7 children)

its kinda gross how far the media will go to not use the word rape... especially in this context

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[–] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 15 points 22 hours ago

Since when is telling a coworker a crime /s

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 39 points 1 day ago (1 children)

How are so many people incapable of doing the literally most obvious and easy task of "do not fuck children" JFC.

[–] Baggie@lemmy.zip 2 points 16 hours ago

Yeah, but unfortunately the people that are predisposed to fucking the children kind of seek the roles out. That or the amount of power it takes to poison some people is much lower than I thought, but I don't want to consider that.

[–] RejZoR@lemmy.ml 100 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Always the same wording when the rapist is a woman...

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