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[–] trk@aussie.zone 28 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

If any service requires me to send a photo of myself to use it, I ain't using it.

EDIT: lol wut, Facebook and YouTube want photo ID now?? I must be old enough to have missed out. My comment stands though, if I wasn't already a member on either of those I guess I wouldn't become one!

[–] viking@infosec.pub 7 points 2 days ago (4 children)

It's a UK law, you either comply or get banned. Obviously everybody now has a VPN subscription.

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[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 4 points 2 days ago

Facebook does that,

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[–] Blackmist@feddit.uk 8 points 2 days ago

It is fucking mental that an industry plagued by data harvesting is being asked to harvest more data.

Anyway, I'm now in Belgium according to my VPN.

[–] archchan@lemmy.ml 15 points 3 days ago

Age verification is insane in it's entirety and no payment processor, corpo, government, or think-tank has any right to enforce their puritanical views on sex and Orwellian techno-fascist policies on everyone.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 20 points 3 days ago (11 children)

"Estimate age from selfie"

fake beard sales dramatically increase

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[–] tal@lemmy.today 198 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (14 children)

That is, I believe, a British law that they're following for users that appear to be in the UK. Not like they're going to just disregard the law.

kagis

Yeah, the Online Safety Act 2023.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Online_Safety_Act_2023

The Online Safety Act 2023[1][2][3] (c. 50) is an act of the Parliament of the United Kingdom to regulate online content. Designed to protect children and adults online, it passed on 26 October 2023 and gives the relevant Secretary of State the power, subject to parliamentary approval, to designate and suppress or record a wide range of online content that is illegal or deemed "harmful" to children.[4][5]

The act creates a new duty of care for online platforms, requiring them to take action against illegal content, or legal content that could be "harmful" to children where children are likely to access it. Platforms failing this duty would be liable to fines of up to £18 million or 10% of their annual turnover, whichever is higher. It also empowers Ofcom to block access to particular websites.

So that's what they'll be aiming to do.

Some websites and apps stated they would introduce age verification for users in response to a 25 July 2025 deadline set by Ofcom.[47] These include pornographic websites,[48] but also the social networks Bluesky and Reddit.[49][50]

Probably should be mostly irritated with Parliament.

I expect that using a VPN that terminates in another country will avoid it, though I bet that then you can't do things like buy Reddit Gold, if that's still a thing.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 160 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)

I'd add that if you pick Ireland as the VPN exit country, it will have notable benefits:

  • Sites that pick language based on IP will probably do English.

  • It probably won't add much latency.

  • Ireland isn't too bonkers and hopefully won't have any large collection of online laws of their own that become an irritant.

  • Because Ireland has a considerably smaller population than the UK, if people in the UK do this at scale for pornography, it will make the Irish statistically look like absolutely indefatigable horndogs, which I think will be pretty funny on visualizations.

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 38 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Indefatigable horndogs best band name calling dibs now

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[–] LSNLDN@slrpnk.net 10 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Yeah I hate this. Glad I’m not using it much anymore anyway but damnnnn. I’m convinced they’re rolling this out under the guise of child safety but with the profit motive of data harvesting for their donors

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[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 30 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

In this case I blame the UK government

I'm not sure what you all are doing

[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 30 points 3 days ago (6 children)

I blame all the people with "purity" kinks who took it so far they actually created movements and entire societies based around denying the most natural and harmless feelings we have as a species.

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[–] markovs_gun@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago (3 children)

What I don't understand is that there are ways to prevent kids from looking at porn that don't rely on crazy shit like this, even if they do involve some government action. Having to send a picture of your face to a porn provider to view porn is the dumbest possible way to fix this. I suspect the real reason for all of this is people want to effectively ban porn altogether and dumb fucks are letting them.

[–] Psythik@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Having to upload your ID anywhere is already sketchy as-is, let alone a porn site. What ever happened to the days of "never use your real name on the internet"? Computer class teachers would drill that into students' heads all the way through K-12.

When Facebook came along, I thought people were insane for posting things under their full name with their photo attached to it. I thought MySpace was asking for too much personal info as-is! Fast forward ~20 years, and not only are you expected to provide your real identity on several websites, some American states even require it now!

Honestly blows my mind how willingly we gave up our online anonymity without even the slightest bit of pushback. We all just accept it as normal now.

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[–] Infernal_pizza@lemmy.dbzer0.com 92 points 4 days ago

In this one instance I'll give Reddit a pass. This is 100% a fuck the UK government moment

[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 20 points 3 days ago (5 children)

Fuck Reddit and Fuck Spez.

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[–] TheCleric@lemmy.org 4 points 2 days ago

VPN, friend

[–] AcidOctopus@lemmy.ml 73 points 4 days ago (10 children)

Lol yeah I'm not doing that. VPN all the way.

Today I'm french.

Tomorrow, who knows?

The possibilities are endless.

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[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 51 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Was using a VPN to watch iPlayer last night and then hopped on reddit and was like "whereintheactualfuck is all the porn‽" Before realizing I had it set to the UK. Blew my mind for a minute

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[–] Katana314@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago (7 children)

The world and the internet are so low on trust, I kind of wish there was some entity we trusted.

Some website where you could upload a photo, and people would actually know for sure that all the site is going to do is compare the photo to an ID, verify you're over a certain age, and send a simple boolean "Yes" to the website that wanted to know if you were over-age. Or, to somehow know that your account is human and not a duplicate.

We could do a lot with that, but as it stands, no person or entity can ever really be trusted with that kind of data; I think most wouldn't even trust the same governments that issue those IDs.

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[–] sylver_dragon@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago (11 children)

Try using old.reddit.com. Literally just replace www with old, or add old in front of reddit.com. This should take you to a version of reddit's interface which isn't complete trash and it usually also allows you to bypass the need to login for NSFW content.

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[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Discord is the same now. Wish more communities used something else

[–] rozodru@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

just use one of the libreddits like safereddit.com or something, never go to actual reddit.

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[–] Olgratin_Magmatoe@slrpnk.net 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)
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[–] moopet@sh.itjust.works 11 points 3 days ago (8 children)

Here's an interesting point. I just went to an nsfw sub to see if I'd get that prompt, and it gives me two ways to verify - selfie or photo ID. The photo ID has to be "government issued", and maybe I don't have one of those. The selfie is a link for a phone, using a QR code and I don't have a phone that can scan QR codes.

This means that in order to access said sub, I'd need to buy a new phone or wait 30 days or whatever to buy some kind of ID. Even with all the other reasons this sucks, that seems discriminatory.

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[–] zipzoopaboop@lemmynsfw.com 35 points 4 days ago (12 children)
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[–] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 55 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I wonder if they pay per verification. If so, I wonder how hard it would be to set up a script to just keep submitting new requests a few hundred or thousands of times a day with random photos...

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 52 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Random AI photos. That would be funny in theory, but they're just using AI to check the ages anyway.

[–] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 50 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Sure, it's not about wasting their time; this says they're using a 3rd party service to verify, so theoretically they're paying for that service. It's about wasting their money.

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[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 38 points 4 days ago

Anyone try a McLovin ID?

[–] Old_Bald_Bloke@feddit.uk 10 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Brit here, I say fuck the UK government

Fucking Red Tories

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[–] pewgar_seemsimandroid@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

people will not let this become the norm (aka persona hq bombings, im predicting that)

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 days ago

They will. People tolerate shitloads. They doubly tolerate it if you tell them to think of the children and point out the only reason they could possibly be offended by this is if they were some kind of pedophile.

If you've nothing to hide, you've nothing to fear. Now submit to increasing orwellian surveillance.

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