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[–] olivier@lemmy.fait.ch 2 points 17 minutes ago

I don't know how ethical it would be, and maybe it already exists, but a tool to replicate a Reddit post directly on a Lemmy instance could be useful

[–] patatas@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago

One thing desperately needed is a method for mods/admins to check for brigading behaviour. This place (the threadiverse, not this community specifically) is crawling with more reactionary toxicity than almost anywhere I've ever seen, but it's mostly cowardly ignorant people silently hammering the downvote button rather than saying out loud the thing that would get them insta-banned.

Also real blocks are needed - all we have right now is a glorified 'mute'. If I block an asshole, not only is it because I don't want to see their BS, but I also don't want them to be able to see my posts & comments, at least not from that account.

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 2 points 3 hours ago

Lemmy must become the free pornography capital of the internet

[–] markovs_gun@lemmy.world 8 points 8 hours ago

Why would we want it to be? More people is what ruins websites. A big part of why reddit sucks is the large number of idiots.

[–] Auth@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago

We should probably gate keep discussion to try keep the standards high in threads where it makes sense. But from what ive seen its already pretty good and conversation feels very human. If we got a influx from reddit id want them to adapt to lemmy culture and not come here and be redditors.

[–] wolfinthewoods@lemmy.ml 7 points 9 hours ago
[–] baconmonsta@piefed.social 8 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Up/Downvoting is so 2015. Instead, comment on any interesting posts, and especially the ones with zero comments. This platform is meant to be about discussion, and not just mindlessly sharing links or memes.
I, personally, am more inclined to check out a post if it has at least one (non-bot, non OP) comment.

[–] Aristotelis@lemmy.ml 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)
[–] baconmonsta@piefed.social 1 points 2 hours ago

I appreciate you putting it into words instead of just upvoting

[–] Mike_Hunt@lemmy.ml 3 points 11 hours ago

if you mean all the niche communities, then sub Reddit could provide a link to a lemmy alternative but no sub Reddit allows promotion so it's pointless.

since being banned from Reddit, i have felt there is something missing since i can't interact in my niche communities any more sadly

[–] chemicalwonka@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 9 hours ago
[–] francisco_1844@discuss.online 11 points 17 hours ago

I think the ideal would be not how to make it "like Reddit", but how to help niche and smaller communities have more members. Unfortunately, I think the easiest way is just to get more users to Lemmy in general.

It is not just niche topics, I find quite a bit of things that are not (in my opinion) niche, yet there is very little participation in Lemmy. Take for for example Postgresql. By now it is one of the most widely used databases yet there is a minuscule number of posts and users in the related communities.

Another example. Just did a search for largest communities in Reddit.. One of them is music with an estimated 38 million redditors. In Lemmy the largest two music communities seem to be 9.9K (!music@lemmy.world) and 18.9K (!music@hexbear.net). That is an astronomical difference for something that is as mainstream as it gets given the broad topic.

I think the best each one of us can do is to participate and post as often as possible in the communities we would like to see grow.

[–] bluecat_OwO@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago

only time and reddit can do that.

Banned my 8 year old account for spam. God damn the account was not even active for 4 months why did you ban it reddit? And no replies from mods either. I liked reddit but lemmy is nice too and niche!

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 20 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Why would you want that? I think of lemmy as an old message board. I think it's better that way.

[–] Redex68@lemmy.world 9 points 21 hours ago

Because of a severe lack of content. On Reddit you can find a community for basically anything. On Lemmy there are only a few alive ones. E.g. there are very few alive country communities.

[–] Modern_medicine_isnt@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Anything that gets that big turns into a shithole. Enshitification will find a way. So just don't.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 3 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Enshittification is a symptom of capitalism at work. Over time products are laser-focused to be as profitable as possible. Scale isn't the issue, capitalism is.

[–] Modern_medicine_isnt@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

The catholic church has entered the chat.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Religion is a superstructural element molded by the mode of production and utilized to reinforce it.

Yeah, but it was around before capitalism.

[–] nfreak@lemmy.ml 5 points 20 hours ago

Just look at every single big subreddit lmao. The only way to use that site is to leave every single default and join smaller communities.

[–] DSN9@lemmy.ml 4 points 21 hours ago

I agree somewhat in the context of centralization. But the spread of the fediverse is a good thing. If Lemmy grows, alongside decentralization, then it should stay true to its roots.

[–] frightful_hobgoblin@lemmy.ml 91 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Bigger isn't necessarily better

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[–] PiecePractical@midwest.social 15 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Porn.

Like any type of media, you win by getting porn on your side. Bring the NSFW content creators over and everyone else will follow.

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 3 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah the porn here is kinda lacking.

[–] Scrollone@feddit.it 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

lemmynsfw dot com is a whole instance dedicated to that

you'll thank me later

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 6 points 1 day ago

There's a whole instance dedicated to porn, isn't there? At least there used to be, is it still live? My instance is defederared from it so idk.

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[–] justsquigglez@leminal.space 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There's admittedly some things I miss from Reddit like bigger niche communities, but I would never want this to get as popular as reddit, because then you'll end up just getting the same problems as reddit down the road and we'll all have to migrate again. And who wants that?

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 7 points 1 day ago

If we could somehow keep the bigger Communities the same size they are now, while growing niche Communities, that would be ideal. It's logically impossible though.

[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 61 points 1 day ago
  1. Be friendly to other Lemmites. Encourage them to post and comment.
  2. Post and comment whenever you can.
  3. If you have niche hobbies or interests, try posting about them into an appropriate community.

Social networks and message boards get more popular as they get more users. Bring friendly and posting regularly should help us maintain the user base.

[–] Tenderizer78@lemmy.ml 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Why would we want to do that? Please don't.

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Why would we want to do that?

So that we can discuss more niche hobbies with other people who love that hobby.

[–] lime@feddit.nu 7 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

if you build it they will come

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 4 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Factually untrue. There just aren't enough people interested in certain topics who are regular users of Lemmy & Piefed to have those communities be thriving.

[–] lime@feddit.nu 4 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

well you gotta advertise too of course.

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[–] Pacattack57@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago (3 children)

There only thing Reddit has over Lemmy is their awesome niche subreddits. Outside of that they have nothing and being more like Reddit is not something we want. With attention comes heavier moderation.

[–] RoadTrain@lemdro.id 4 points 20 hours ago

I would say it’s slightly more than this: The vast majority of Lemmy is comprised of only a few things—politics, tech, memes—and it’s hard to find discussions or opinions about almost everything else. The main value of reddit to me is (was?) that you could find a lot of input from people involved in a wide variety of fields, from niche hobbies to more generic areas of interest like history, philosophy, or medicine.

I’ve actually found that there are people on Lemmy with similar levels of expertise, and they’re willing to share it just as well, but they have fewer opportunities to do so, because very few threads get posted outside the 3 main topics. Several times I’ve come across useful and interesting insight, but it was in the comments of posts only vaguely related, so it would have been difficult to find intentionally if I hadn’t run into it.

So, perhaps, this is what could improve Lemmy: starting more discussions about different topics. Perhaps this will attract more people to read them, which might attract more people to post.

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

+1

Reddit can keep all the gigasubs. Let the niche fandoms trickle over here…

[–] Redex68@lemmy.world 2 points 21 hours ago

There only thing Reddit has over Lemmy is their awesome niche subreddits I mean, to me at least that's 99% of the point of a platform like this?

[–] dap@lemmy.onlylans.io 40 points 1 day ago

I personally enjoy that Lemmy isn't as popular as Reddit. It feels more home-grown and friendly because it's not as large. That being said, contributing to and engaging with the content you enjoy is a good start. Finding a niche here can be great and there are tons of interesting communities to contribute to!

[–] dormedas@lemmy.dormedas.com 31 points 1 day ago

Network effects are quite difficult to overcome. Lemmy’s largest influxes of users have been when Reddit does something unpopular enough to warrant people looking for other places. Same was true when Reddit became popular because Digg made bad decisions, or Facebook when MySpace did.

The answer is that Lemmy almost assuredly will never be as popular, but at least its future is not dictated by the profits of a company, or censorship imposed by or on that company.

The best we can do is make Lemmy a viable alternative (it is) and ensure it is of a high quality.

[–] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 23 points 1 day ago

Keep the light alive as Reddit further enshittifies

[–] TheGuyTM3@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I understand the motive, I too am on some niche communities that sometimes didn't have posts for months. For that i use reddit (but the old interface). Now let's see your question.

No, we can't make lemmy as popular as reddit, but we can turn lemmy into a reddit twin, and make it popular, by pushing only one instance like .world.

The social media that popularised fediverse the most was mastodon, and yet it's because they pushed mastodon.social as the default, making a large part of the userbase think that mastodon is only mastodon.social.

People do not even notice things more complicated than buttons "join", "login", or "post". They are lost on join-lemmy.org because they don't know why they should choose a server, read description, understand whatever is federation, and they'll prefer going back to their comfort zone.

But hey, social media experience enshittifies as the userbase gets bigger, and i came here by fleeing reddit so please don't

[–] francisco_1844@discuss.online 3 points 16 hours ago

People do not even notice things more complicated than buttons “join”, “login”, or “post”. They are lost on join-lemmy.org because >they don’t know why they should choose a server, read description, understand whatever is federation, and they’ll prefer going back >to their comfort zone.

Agree on this 100%. When I first found Lemmy I had no idea what instance to join, why it matter, or.. why it really didn't matter all that much.. It was just confusing.. and the first instance I joined ended up closing.. which was less than an ideal experience as it was without notice and the instance just disappeared. Took me days to even find out why they had closed. Then took me several more days to find the next instance to join.

Federation is both a weakness and a strength in that there may be people who get turned off by that initial complexity.

Then, some people who join may see low volumes on communities they care about and end up not joining.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Why?

I'd say concentrate on quality over quantity.

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