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[–] zaidka@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 days ago

I feel, for me at least, it's more than just curiosity. Bottom up thinking makes you obsessively want to learn the deeper truth so you can build more generalized knowledge. For example, a neurotical student learning the Pythagorean theorem would simply memorize the formula which is easy and straightforward. Maybe if they're curious enough they'd try to understand why it works. But for a bottom up thinker, memorizing the formula as a floating piece of knowledge is difficult. So they need to have a deeper understanding of the underlying principles in order to "ground" that knowledge.

My pet theory is that people with ADHD have to rely more on bottom up thinking to compensate for their weaker working memory. Having a deeper understanding of a subject makes things easier to remember and reason about. Kind of like how it's easier to remember a phone number if you look for patterns within it. This "hypercuriosity" is an advantage in the same sense as wheelchair users have the advantage of having stronger arms.

[–] Carbonizer@lemmy.world 21 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Alas, I have the 'nothing at all gives me dopamine' ADHD. I thought it was just depression for years, but turns out it was ADHD. I struggle to see any benefits that come from my condition.

[–] GaMEChld@lemmy.world 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

ADHD can correlate with depression. You still need to treat the depression though. Untreated depression will indeed blind you to anything positive about anything.

[–] EldenLord@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Yup, it‘s probably that. In a societal vacuum, the curiosity would exist, but the daily struggle and resulting depression overshadows it.

(Source: Been through it, currently recovering.)

[–] GaMEChld@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

Same, was speaking from experience as well. I consider myself recovered from the depression now, but it was definitely something I needed to proactively address.

[–] Krauerking@lemy.lol 18 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Duh.
You think a behavior that was handled in humanity for thousands of years would be fully disadvantageous or perhaps just we are letting our world be dominated by what a few think it should look like?
It may not fit into the current world but that is more a statement on it than us.

[–] cute_noker 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

It's like my boss says

"Just shut up and do your job"

Right now I am into mushrooms but that doesn't pay the bills

[–] Krauerking@lemy.lol 5 points 6 days ago

Yeah i wish it was easier to get in and out of jobs. I would open a really awesome popcorn shop i think but i cant risk the bills.

But thats the flaw of our current society that we cant explore how we can help make the world a little more full instead of utilitarian.

[–] TDCN 10 points 6 days ago

My curiosity absolutely does not disappear when I'm medicated! I'd rather say that it gets refined and sharpened such that I can better filter out noisey ideas that irrelevant and focus on my curiosity and creativity such that I can actually execute on the ideas I have.

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 6 days ago

PFFT advantage of asking too many questions and pissing off all the normals? Yup, got it.

[–] Homesnatch@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago

adhd hypercuriosity post followed by cat photo

These two share curiosity in common.

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 7 points 6 days ago

So if you ever wonder who it was that figured out you can eat something weird way back in history, sounds like it was probably someone with ADHD lol

Yeah I have it, it's let me learn a lot of new things but it falters when I really want to explore those things or God forbid, get better at them

[–] BrianTheFirst@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I read the article, but I don't understand how hypercuriosity is a benefit. It's more annoying than anything, because I can't do anything practical with it.

[–] EldenLord@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

It‘s a benefit for society. Some people being weird and trying new ways to improve tasks are eventually successful. Think caveman constantly rolling down things a hill and inventing the wheel.

[–] brap@lemmy.world 118 points 1 week ago (1 children)

“And she often obsessed over random projects before abruptly abandoning them.”

Preach.

[–] MelonYellow@lemmy.ca 35 points 1 week ago

Yesh I really feel like it’s a double edged sword. Like you could excel at so many things if you could only stick to it.

[–] potatopotato@sh.itjust.works 75 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think most people who have it figure this out pretty quickly. NT normies feel like they accept the world completely at face value by comparison and it can cause a lot of friction

[–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 56 points 1 week ago (7 children)

I was regularly told to stop asking “too many” questions in class when I was a kid.

[–] i_love_FFT@jlai.lu 3 points 6 days ago

I was always told "I don't know, ask your grandfather" He was in education and had encyclopedic knowledge of so many things!

[–] KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com 44 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Funny thing is, this has helped me enormously in my career. Everyone else is simply trudging along on assumptions and I swoop in with a dozen edge cases that we simply aren’t handling.

Schooling beats a specific kind of “curiosity” into you, while beating out a much more general “what if this assumption isn’t the case.”

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 2 points 6 days ago

Monkey-see, monkey-do is a powerful survival skill. For neurotypical people, it's easy to just reproduce learned behaviors, without the reasoning behind them. I find interesting parallels with generative AI. You see it a lot in creative pursuits especially. So many people totally miss subtext. I think you also see it a lot while driving.

And it's largely an education problem. There's no reason neurotypicals can't think critically, but it's much easier to teach them to just slot into a role without any real understanding (Religion is very good at this). I think that's also the reason conventional education can be so difficult for people that aren't neurotypical. It's meant to teach you what to do, not why

I definitely find myself to be at an advantage compared to most neurotypical people I have worked with. In aggregate though, the ease they have moving with the flow can end up being more of an advantage in the long term, especially in largely neurotypical spaces. It can be very frustrating

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[–] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 70 points 1 week ago (16 children)

I mean it's a "water is wet" kind of "discovery" for anyone who has or understands ADHD, but it's nice to see it spelled out in an accessible way for laymen. Many types of neurodivergence have advantages, it's just that those advantages are not as impactful as the disadvantages because they the disadvantages break societal norms. Just like a person in a wheelchair breaks the societal norm of stairs. Unless accommodations are made, they disabled person is unable to participate in society and thus they are unable to use or sometimes even show their advantages.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

It doesn't help that we have a fundamentally broken society to begin with.

[–] i_love_FFT@jlai.lu 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Society hyperoptimized on ~~productivity~~ profit such that taking time to enjoy a side quest is frowned upon...

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 2 points 6 days ago

While that's true, there are common objectives that benefit the whole: food, shelter, health, art, and of course rest and recreation. The ability to prioritize and stick to a plan is challenging, for everyone. Who wouldn't rather be doing something fun?

There's a balance there somewhere. I often ignore it at my own peril.

[–] beejboytyson@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

I mean, downhill I guess 🤷

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[–] elucubra@sopuli.xyz 58 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I'm offended by the attention deficit and the disorder part. I don't have a deficit, I have an abundance of attention, it's just not linear. I have parallel attention, not serial. In my close circle I'm the guy people often go for answers, because I often have them, albeit often somewhat superficial, because it's near impossible to go deep in any subject, unless hyperfocus kicks in.

[–] i_love_FFT@jlai.lu 1 points 6 days ago

I have more attention than most, but I just can't put it all in the same basket! (Unless hyperfocus...)

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 53 points 1 week ago (2 children)

You know the saying: Hypercuriosity hyperkilled the hypercat.

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 2 points 6 days ago

Turns out safety regulations are written in our blood

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[–] restingboredface@sh.itjust.works 44 points 1 week ago (5 children)

“When you look at the way people with ADHD learn, and especially if they are hypercurious, they start reading something and they’re like, ‘Ooh what is that? I want to learn about this. What is that? Does it connect to that?’ It looks a lot more like a messy mind map rather than a straight [line],” Le Cunff says. “The problem is when there’s no space for exploration.”

I cannot express to you how much this captures my experience reading. It can sometimes take days for me to get past a page when I'm constantly stopping to look up other things a passage made me think of or write down ideas and questions.

I feel this too when I play video games. I like to open every box, go through every door, listen to all the recordings etc. When I play coop with my husband it drives him a bit nuts when he wants to focus on a specific quest and I'm exploring.

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 3 points 6 days ago

I am right there with you in games. I've been playing Enshrouded with my partner and some friends recently, and we've gotten into arguments on continuing the quest, versus exploring, versus building lol

It's very interesting to me to see how other people can just walk past something without looking into it, or, even more foreign to me, remember it, and come back later. I, personally, have to completely explore an area outright the first time, because I know I will not be interested in going back through it in the future

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[–] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 36 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 days ago

I need to watch this movie again

[–] Ilixtze@lemmy.ml 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

In my case: hypercuriosity -> hyperfixiation -> hypercuriosity -> hyperfixiation.

[–] whoisearth@lemmy.ca 21 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I also want to add the danger of taking "facts" at face value. I have ADD as do my kids. They are inundated with information I never was and I have to debunk a lot of shit they see online because of the source (manosphere shit is everywhere). Seriously it's an absolute fire hose of bullshit online if you don't know how to filter content.

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