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Is there any good alternative to myAnimeList or would you recommend I go back to the spreadsheet?

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[–] Gooey0210@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 hours ago

sounds like a good anime title

[–] bluemoon@piefed.social 1 points 21 hours ago

it doesn't need that. use Kitsu or selfhost using NeoDB.

[–] markz@suppo.fi 124 points 2 days ago (3 children)

We and our 938 partners value your privacy

[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 44 points 2 days ago (4 children)

“Babe, but it feels better without a condom.”

[–] msage@programming.dev 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] silasmariner@programming.dev 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Just one of the many perks of a stable monogamous relationship.

[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago

We and our 938 partners value your health.

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[–] TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 days ago

And all of them have stellar security. No data ever leaks anywhere.

[–] VieuxQueb@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 days ago

And don't forget these partners have other partners of their own.

[–] muhyb@programming.dev 27 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] RichardDegenne@lemmy.zip 13 points 2 days ago

In a literal sense. They're putting a price on your privacy, and there are 938 buyers.

[–] artyom@piefed.social 61 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Unfortunately this is just the state of the web in the modern day. Virtually every site exists to serve you ads while simultaneously collecting your data and selling it to their "partners" in exchange for their content.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 26 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I would love to see any actual verifiable positive ROI numbers directly linked to or resultant from the money a company spent to purchase these targeted ads.

[–] Meron35@lemmy.world 25 points 2 days ago (3 children)

That's the neat part, you can't, because the companies that run ad networks (e.g. Google and Meta) intentionally make the consumer behaviours market as opaque as possible. As the market maker, they have an economic incentive to withold information from their customers, because any mistakes from market participants due to information assymetries directly translate to profit surplus for the market maker.

We have long since moved on from simple pay per click/view pricing models to pay per "impression," the definition of which is not clear even to the companies that purchase the ads.

And in a somewhat ironic twist, one of the motivations for such extensive surveillance is the desire to quantify such ROIs. Statistics and analytics such as click through and conversion rates all require tracking user behaviour across vast networks.

[–] irmadlad@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I've always thought (anecdotally - no substantiating evidence) that advertising on the internet, which is much different that advertising in a magazine or billboard, is probably a loss leader or close to it. The real value for the product manufacturer is the data they steal from you. In all honesty, I can't think of a product or service I've purchased that was based on an advertisement. 99.999% of the time, I know what I need or have a really good idea, and will research it on the internet extensively, depending on value, and make my purchase based on my research. It also could be that I have made it a concerted effort to never see any online advertisements on my network, so maybe I am not as affected as those who see ads in every square inch of their monitor every day, like they're on a porn site.

Network so tight I call it virgin. /s

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[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 days ago

I think the AI bubble is actually a deeper, more structural data bubble. There isn't actually a case for profitability, they're just doing it out of investor demands and inertia and because That's Just How We Do Things.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Not only that, but literally the only reason we even have these popups now is because of recent European laws

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[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 25 points 2 days ago (1 children)

We value your privacy, that's why we'll sell your data to anyone that is willing to pay us money. We will sell it to literally a thousand different companies which will mix and match and resell you data to thousands more

It so so so so extremely angers me that companies ALWAYS FUCKING LIE.

We value your privacy

FUCK YOU YOU DO NOT

We're pissing u on your back and we tell you that you're getting a refreshing shower, please thank us for this insult!

Just be fucking honest that you don't give a shit, money is your only bottom line, and you would rape and murder my mother if you even thought it would make you money. Fuck all of you

I want a law that says that companies cannot behave like this. You cannot say "your call is important to us" every 2 minutes while I've been waiting on the phone for three hours to be able to return your piece of shit product that arrived broken, but you were too cheap to invest in basic customer support.

I want marketing and advertising outlawed. Completely. It's allowed for companies to lay out their products, but you're not. allowed. to. lie. No "we're the best!" Fuck you, you're the absolute worst. A company like Comcast should be forbidden from claiming they're good at anything as they suck at everything and only manage to continue to exist because of fucking lying through their teeth with their marketing.

these sort of shit popups is just the next logical step that starts literally with the first words being an absolute lie

Fuck this shit

[–] tlmcleod@lemmy.ml 13 points 2 days ago

They do value our privacy, but they just mean they're putting a $ amount on it, not that they care about it

[–] jesale@lemmy.zip 44 points 2 days ago

938 customers, the users are the product

[–] faltryka@lemmy.world 41 points 2 days ago

Because you are the product.

[–] DoucheBagMcSwag@lemmy.dbzer0.com 25 points 2 days ago (2 children)

The 938 partners who really really Really REALLY fucking hate you

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[–] JanUwU42@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 2 days ago

Switch to Anilist ^^ Many FOSS Apps available :)

Switching is super easy

[–] Feyd@programming.dev 23 points 2 days ago

It's almost like they don't really value your privacy

[–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

To give you a better personalized experience™ of course!

Just block the partners, should still work. All of the anime pirating sites are riddled with ads.

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (3 children)

All of the anime pirating sites are riddled with ads.

As if the commercial sites were any better...

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[–] xia@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 2 days ago

hehe... you TOO can become a partner! We're having a special! Anyone willing to pay for partnership access coincidentally gets an unrelated trove of personal data!

[–] shneancy@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

dw about it, your data will be safe amongst their friends! MyAnimeList and their 938 closest friends :)

[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 3 points 2 days ago
[–] undefinedTruth@lemmy.zip 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

We value your privacy

And this is why we are going to violate it in every way possible!

[–] Cris16228@lemmy.today 5 points 2 days ago

It reminds me of

[–] kiagam@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

They are honest, but not very clear. We could rewrite that as "we assigned monetary value to your privacy"

[–] biotin7@sopuli.xyz 6 points 2 days ago

Anilist & Kitsu. (Kitsu is OpenSource, I think)

[–] jlow@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 2 days ago
[–] Sludgehammer@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

They took harem anime's to heart?

[–] Tenderizer78@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

There is anime-planet which I use. There's also anilist. Don't know how private either of them are.

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[–] Lodespawn@aussie.zone 6 points 2 days ago

Livechart.me ?

[–] tordenflesk@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

Turn on the 'Cookie notices' filter lists in Ublock Origin.

[–] capuccino@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

MyPartnerList

[–] utopiah@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Thanks for highlighting that.

The same way IMDB has https://imdbapi.dev/ or https://www.omdbapi.com/ (which I did use for a bit) is there an equivalent, namely MyAnimeList DB or API?

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