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[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 198 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Wait. This is unappealing to you guys? I'll take the goth mommy then.

[–] Dubious_Fart@lemmy.ml 64 points 2 years ago

big tiddy goth mommy dommy, fuck yes.

[–] sock@lemmy.world 28 points 2 years ago (2 children)

its unappealing when i want notes and not sex. sometimes i just wanna hangout and not bone it doesnt mean youre not attractive its just midnight im really high and I want to sleep.

this is a hypothetical about my ex and i

[–] ProperlyProperTea@lemmy.ml 26 points 2 years ago

Hang out and.....not.....bone?

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[–] chakan2@lemmy.world 15 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's fun for a minute...then...well...it's kind of where "don't stick your dick in crazy" came from.

[–] Unaware7013@kbin.social 35 points 2 years ago

I envy you if this is your version of 'crazy'

[–] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 10 points 2 years ago

It's weird and unappealing if this just comes out of the blue when you ask for notes (and you're not into her)

[–] Holzkohlen@feddit.de 7 points 2 years ago

I too would let myself get pegged daily in return for a goth mommy.

[–] Potatos_are_not_friends@lemmy.world 154 points 2 years ago (2 children)

This is what kids call goth now?

Goth used to be all Satan and death and sometimes kittens.

Is it all kittens now?

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 108 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (10 children)

Goth is now just what the E-Girls with black lipstick call themselves. Gone are the days of Bauhaus, true Goth is with Bela Lugosi now.

Same happened to punk, just 20yr ago. And it'll happen to your subgenre!

[–] Alexstarfire@lemmy.world 40 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 years ago

Oh for sure, but musical genres are different for a reason. Much of what is claimed to be punk these days is simply "a different genre," and it should be ok to be "a different genre than punk." You can see it as gatekeeping all you like, but My Chemical Romance (commonly claimed to be punk in my area by the people who I am talking about, "those who don't know what they are talking about") is as punk as Buck Owens (nobody makes that claim, I use him to point out the ridiculousness of everything having to be specifically punk regardless of the actual genre.)

Just call yourselves something else if you are something else, just like you would with everything else. You don't hear me claiming Discharge is the best goth band around, do you? I'm not proclaiming to be a goth because I like D-Beat am I? So why am I the asshole for expecting others to learn the differences in genres and subcultures? What, all heavy music and black clothing is the same to you? That's subcultureist!

(Btw if it isn't clear that this debate in which I am correct is as serious as pineapple on pizza, it ain't that deep. I'm still right though, you can be free to have your own thing without claiming to be something you're not, it's ok, it's actually better!)

[–] the_third@feddit.de 25 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Punk ain't dead, punk is just busy scrubbing the bathroom because the in-laws are coming for tea.

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 years ago

Oh I know it isn't "dead dead," good shit is still being made, lot of it actually, and there's some good gothy music being made too albeit more synthy stuff, but they've been bastardized from their original forms to the point of unrecognizability in some circumstances to the degree where people's favorite "punk band" is My Chemical Aromas or some such nonsense.

I just personally think that rather than attach themselves poorly to an already developed subgenere/subculture, they should just call themselves their own thing. It'd be like if I said I'm a country star but all I do is spoken word, "no, you're a spoken word star, and that is fantastic, but country music is one thing and you are another."

Frankly imo, that is the charitable way to view it too, because otherwise I'd view them to be like the "punk" version of dudes in cowboy gear and silverados on their way to their accounting jobs.

[–] uphillbothways@kbin.social 11 points 2 years ago (3 children)

pretty sure goth died to EDM in the 90's. it was a weird transition, too. from somber to dark rave, and it happened really fast. probably in large part due to the matrix movies and hot topic.

[–] Blastasaurus@lemm.ee 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Didn't Trent Rezner start producing electronic music/become a DJ?

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[–] sweetviolentblush@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Nah, real goths are still around. We still listen to all the classics, and most of those genres are still alive and have newer albums. Some of the newish (or thriving) goth genres are: minimal synth, witch house, neofolk, dark jazz, dark trap, deathstep, electropunk/synth punk. We're just lurking in the shadows, which is kinda an obvious place for us to be when you think about it 😉

[–] Violette@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Deathstep is dupstep but by vampires?

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[–] SasquatchBanana@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Punk scene is still active in my area and they are based af. Some Nazis tried to get in the scene and they were stomped away.

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 years ago

My area has a bit going on too, and kicking out nazi punks is par for the course, but that isn't what I'm talking about. I'm talking about people who's "favorite punk band" is like my chemical romance or a day to remember, which are not punk.

[–] Caitlynn@feddit.de 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

They dont call themselves Goth, they get called Goth, as Seen in the meme

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 years ago

X to doubt.

Dated one. Got stuck with them during the pandemic matter of fact. They most certainly do call themselves goth, because thick makeup in the style of "internet" and a pair of fishnets makes one goth now.

Sad state of affairs at the Ministry fan club.

[–] Son_of_dad@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I love me some 1970s British Punk

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 years ago

Hell yeah me too (but if we're gonna have this fight, Iggy started it! Lol). I don't mean to say that there aren't punks still, or good shit being made, but you gotta know where to find it and people who claim to be "punk" have to pass a litmus test to find out if you're the same type of punk as eachother (which is to say, of newer stuff would you rather listen to Vivisected Numbskulls or My Chemical Romance (or whatever those kids are into these days, idk because it is also a decidedly different genre people just proclaim to be punk and then you get called a gatekeeper because you recognize the difference in musical genres, fuck it I guess Buck Owens is punk too then.)

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[–] AuthorityClassError@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago

They insert themselves everywhere nowadays. Still doesn't mean goth is the same as furry.

But yes, horse dicks Harry, Horse dicks everywhere.

[–] Son_of_dad@lemmy.world 82 points 2 years ago (1 children)

This just makes me want to. That's the start of a great conversation

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[–] BananaPeal@sh.itjust.works 75 points 2 years ago (1 children)

At least she's interesting.

[–] Idreamofcheesy@lemmy.world 39 points 2 years ago (3 children)
[–] navi@lemmy.tespia.org 7 points 2 years ago

Go away Katie

[–] chomskysfave5@lemmy.film 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Ahh yes, very interesting.

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[–] srasmus@lemmy.world 74 points 2 years ago (1 children)

You guys don't know what you're missing.

[–] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 8 points 2 years ago

Asks for notes

Receives notes and fetish shit

I'll be glad to miss out lol

[–] 3FingersOfMilk@lemm.ee 59 points 2 years ago (4 children)

A 32MB .docx file? What is in it?

Images? And if so, of what?

[–] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 21 points 2 years ago

I'd like to see those images too o.o

[–] Nioxic@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 2 years ago

Pics of her in halloween sexy cat costume obviously. (Lingery and cat eats and a butt plug tail)

[–] trinitrotoluene@lemm.ee 12 points 2 years ago
[–] Perfide@reddthat.com 8 points 2 years ago

Anthro, did the title and the purring not make that obvious?

[–] reddthat@reddthat.com 20 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Am I the only one thinking this is fake because its a 32MB file?

Email usually caps out at 25MB...

[–] steersman2484@sh.itjust.works 19 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Depends on your provider, theoretically you could also send a few gigs

[–] reddthat@reddthat.com 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeah but I thought the consensus was 25M.

Which provider allows more than? 25M?

[–] Phantom3805@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Microsoft 365 allows admins to set the maximum to 150mb, but it's rare that anyone would

[–] kautau@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Plus, receiving email servers can set their limit. Many email servers won’t accept attachments that large

[–] Unaware7013@kbin.social 9 points 2 years ago (7 children)

50mb is a somewhat standard limit anymore

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[–] bignuts700@pawb.social 19 points 2 years ago

the title is just meowwww

[–] janNatan@lemmy.ml 15 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Are the straights alright?

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 37 points 2 years ago

Idk that could just as easily be lez

[–] BarrelAgedBoredom@lemm.ee 18 points 2 years ago

Like there aren't any non hetero goth mommies

[–] TaintLord9000@lemmy.world 18 points 2 years ago

Honey, my middle and high school years were spent among bi and gay furry girls that would talk like this all the time but also they would scratch and hiss at each other.

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