RainaLillius

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[–] RainaLillius@lemm.ee 4 points 17 hours ago

Yea, I'm pretty sure we see things that most people are blind to. A side effect or our own self criticism. It's like you see dozens of tiny cues, all of witch are also common in cis women, but the right combination of cues will trigger my spidey sense.

I don't think it's something that can be learned. But even if I could teach it, I wouldn't. With great power and all that..

[–] RainaLillius@lemm.ee 6 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

But, there are many more trans people than attacks on suspected trans people. It really feels like they are bad at identifying trans people

[–] RainaLillius@lemm.ee 12 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

You're not wrong, but there are trans people out there. I'm a trans woman myself and I cross paths with other trans people fairly often in the wild, so to speak. So it is a bit intresting that transphobes fail so hard at clocking us. Granted as a trans person myself I may be better at identifying trans people.

Although most trans people I've met are very self conscious about their appearance. So many of us don't stop using the bathroom of our birth sex until doing so becomes an issue. Usually well meaning people clocking us as our preferred gender and telling us we are in the wrong bathroom, or just making it very clear that our presence confused them. I've heard versions of this story from so many trans people. "This is when I knew it was time to switch bathrooms" is basically trope in trans spaces...

I suspect they keep attacking cis women because cis women feel comfortable using the women's restroom. Even if their appearance is outside the societal norm.

[–] RainaLillius@lemm.ee 27 points 19 hours ago

I suspect it includes that as an explanation for her masculine haircut. And to clarify that she is, infact, not trans. Should any of that matter? It clearly did to the people who assaulted her. The inclusion is probably meant to make hateful people think twice in an effort to stem the violence.

[–] RainaLillius@lemm.ee 25 points 19 hours ago

The rate of hate crimes does go up when you have a hate monger in office. There was a spike in his last term and there will be this time also.

[–] RainaLillius@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

Redit is highly compromised. I got a warning for threatening violence. My comment something to the affect of "this person should be charged with treason."

They are weeding out anyone who is pushing for action. Step one at this point is to reorganize. Redit has killed 50501

[–] RainaLillius@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago

People are exhausted. The protest have had little traction, the media barely covered them and downplayed them when they did. We played by the rules and got protest approved, we were non disruptive, made it easy to ignore us. If we want to have any affect we need to take cues from the French. We need to be disruptive we need to break the systems. But doing this will have a cost, there will be violence from police, there will be jail. Until more people are willing to pay that price we are just treating water, sadly.

[–] RainaLillius@lemm.ee 66 points 1 day ago (7 children)

Weird how these transphobes never seem to find an actual trans person.

Trans rights are human rights! Everyone is harmed by blind hatred..

[–] RainaLillius@lemm.ee 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Aah, you're getting with the crazy ones. Honestly don't know if I'm just lucky or a good judge of character. Maybe I'm just old...

[–] RainaLillius@lemm.ee 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yea... funeral will cost more than my meds... sadness. Guess I'll keep paying 25$ a month. Luckily what I'm on is cheap, for now...

[–] RainaLillius@lemm.ee 3 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I'm a woman, and have exclusive been with other women. I haven't had any issues but we probably don't have much overlap in our dating pools.

[–] RainaLillius@lemm.ee 6 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

But I could just not take my prescribed meds. Think of all the money I could save. What could possibly go wrong?

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