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[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

Yeah, I don't think she actually wants to be your friend. I recommend the song "I'm Looking Through You" by The Beatles.

"I'm looking through you, where did you go I thought I knew you, what did I know You don't look different, but you have changed I'm looking through you, you're not the same

Why, tell me why, did you not treat me right? Love has a nasty habit of disappearing overnight"

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yes, most likely. What exactly was she saying to them? She could have been joking, but to not flirt with your own partner shows she was not attracted to you, probably.

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

In other words, she may care for you in a general sense, but not a personal one, if you get it.

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Awww, sorry to hear. I think Sophie just needs some time but either wants to be friends or is unsure. Give her space, which you seem to be doing, but also be kind to her.

Honestly? She might care and be a kind person but doesn't want to be friends if that makes sense.

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 month ago

ahhh, ok. i'm definitely omni then.

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Ciao! Parlo anche italiano :)

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

Sorry, is this your ex-girlfriend you were talking about who was bullying your friend or whatever? Or just in general? Anyway, she probably needs an outlet for her pain if she was bullied but it doesn’t excuse her behavior in any way.

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 month ago

On one hand, maybe y’all need some time. On the other, you kinda are bad for ghosting your “friend”. What the hell?

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 month ago

yes, you are TA. You are absolutely leading her on in this case and your shrugging isn't gonna help anything. It's just gonna make her upset. You gotta communicate with people.

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago

Good comment. Thanks a bunch!

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 1 month ago

Not overreacting, it could be a red flag. I would say your feelings and thoughts definitely are valid, but give her the benefit of the doubt and also ask what's going on, don't make false accusations. Break up with her if she turns out to be bullying your friend and/or making you choose between her or him as an ultimatum.

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago

I’m sorry. You are a terrible person. You sound awful.

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