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[–] baines@lemmy.cafe 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

if that’s what you want to take away from this go for it lol im done with what I wanted to say after this

the nuance is that even crappy people can have worthwhile observations

that you can’t seem to get past his conclusions and separate the wheat from the chaff isn’t on me

that you keep trying to handwave this like women don’t massively have issues with platonic male relationships while we’re in a toxic masculinity post is again lol

women are choosing the bear but you think somehow it’s all better as friends?

the are so many examples of women complaining about this issue if you spend any time in female dominated subs

[–] baines@lemmy.cafe 1 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

because all things equal it’s easier to get your country to support funding genocide of the other

[–] baines@lemmy.cafe 1 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

you keep attributing to me words I’ve not actually said lol

I’m neither the guy in the post nor whatever this strawman is you are building

reading these literal paragraphs of you arguing with yourself is kinda painful

[–] baines@lemmy.cafe 2 points 3 weeks ago

more like rich and powerful people want stupid masses

stop blaming these issues on individuals when the whole system is setup to fuck them into this mess

anymore than individuals can fix our plastics or fossil fuel issues

[–] baines@lemmy.cafe 0 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

you keep trying to frame it like I don’t think he’s controlling or that I support his conclusion

as to pretty women developing skills all you got to do is read a bit on the internet or hell female biographies for that matter to see how bullshit that is

just because you develop tools to cope and defend yourself doesn't mean it doesn't fuck you up, some do ok but plenty don’t

so yea it’s gonna be really really really hard for a pretty woman to have honest male friendships, that’s the nuance, not the turd boyfriend you keep trying to focus this on

[–] baines@lemmy.cafe -4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (7 children)

nothing is nuanced about his behavior, for sure it is shit and controlling

what’s nuanced is how male relationships behave in modern western cultures(US specifically) and pointing out how a pretty woman is going to have a real hard time finding genuine male friendships

and snark aside most his friends are probably not interested in fucking him as only about 1/5th are openly gay

[–] baines@lemmy.cafe 6 points 3 weeks ago

because Egypt was a bit dark and there was less butt sex

[–] baines@lemmy.cafe 4 points 4 weeks ago

what’s a mall food court grandpa?

[–] baines@lemmy.cafe 6 points 4 weeks ago

it is 2025, it was fucked 20 years ago too

[–] baines@lemmy.cafe 5 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

what do you think this even means?

I’m not a company nor a state entity, no power is going to sign for me.

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