lilcutie24

i just created a lemmy instance, akarisarea.nohost.me, so i'm wondering how to see all the upvotes and comments from communities i subscribed to

akarisarea.nohost.me is new but born. finally. :)

i (20f) live with my dad and my two sisters. i feel like i have to obey the rules of my dad for obvious reasons. there's this boy (16m) my sister (15f) met and she's getting to know him. she recently asked him to hang out and he responded that he would love that.

however, my dad is very... weird about afab and amab people being together. his thinking is: guy and sister hang out -----> this means they are dating ----> guy will (somehow) get sister pregnant even when dad or i chaperone

We have a disorder called OSDD and we are plural

we're plural, so anything that refers to the whole system and not just me as an alter, i'll say "we".

there was this one girl that was badly hurting and stalking our host. she claimed to preach equal rights for everyone but in my honest opinion, she was so full of it. She didn't support gay rights but then would respectfully ask people what were their pronouns. She also claimed everyone should be treated the same and all but would treat us especially badly for being autistic, which was why we were subject to stalking and harassment. she claimed that we were horrible people who were bullying her and being creepy because we "acted weird" and got mad that we didn't understand why she hated us when she didn't even say why, she expected us to "get the hint" but she would outright say she liked us.

"equal rights" my ass, and then you bully and stalk someone while preaching equality for all? you treat people lesser?

So, it kind of sucks. I'm a caretaker alter in a system. Our bio dad doesn't consider me to be his daughter, only the host, but the rest of the family indeed sees me as their daughter. That's why I'll say bio dad and not just dad.

I forgot what i said, it was something about how i thought trans people deserved rights and not to be misgendered and how i supported gay marriage. also, my bio dad was using a lot of slurs. he said that because I was so kind and "soft-hearted", I was being very sensitive like a "liberal" ("liberal" being used as an insult here).

seriously, just because I want rights for everyone and not use slurs?? why is that not likeable?

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