themoken

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[–] themoken@startrek.website 7 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Nobody is arguing that the patriarchy fucks men harder than women because you're right, it doesn't.

Your dismissal of the military issue and suicide is an example of your, and society's, complete lack of empathy for men. Sure, it's not women sending men to die, or directly causing them to feel hopeless, but that doesn't somehow mean they aren't victims of the patriarchy.

Did I personally get ordered to die? No, but I sure as hell had my role as an emotionless working machine, the assumed self-sufficient breadwinner that needed to support my entire family myself even if it meant my life was expendable, pushed on me by men, women, religion, and the media. And if I didn't want that role or failed to live up to it, I'm a fucking loser and the community doesn't care that I fed myself to a meat grinder and came out broken.

I promise, it's possible to have empathy for the women who are being fucked by the patriarchy as well as the men simultaneously. Going back to my initial comment, it was never trying to disregard the scientist in the post, only dispel this idea that there is some individual that hasn't experienced sexism/patriarchy.

[–] themoken@startrek.website 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (7 children)

The patriarchy is also what sends men to die for imperialism, tells them they can't ask for help, admit weakness, or be vulnerable. It's why the ratio of suicides is 6:1 men to women in the US and men are something like 4 times more likely to die deaths of despair, take jobs that destroy their body, or get rejected from jobs that deal with caring or teaching because of biased assumptions of pedophilia and sexual abuse.

Yes, some (read: cis, hetero, rich) men are privileged by the system, and we should absolutely not discount women's experiences, but it's not one or the other, it's both.

[–] themoken@startrek.website 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (7 children)

I don't think it's minimizing to acknowledge that sexism is endemic and cuts both ways.

[–] themoken@startrek.website 26 points 1 month ago (18 children)

Don't know what the other comment was, but everyone has experienced sexism. It's inevitable that inaccurate gender stereotypes will be applied to you at some time. For men it's just the "stop emoting you fucking pussy" or "you suck at nurturing so don't even try."

The patriarchy fucks us all.

[–] themoken@startrek.website 2 points 1 month ago

Exactly. DEI as a term is just a lightning rod for idiots at the moment so maybe you just publicly stop calling it that and keep everything else the same.

[–] themoken@startrek.website 5 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I dunno how to interpret this honestly. On its face this reflects poorly on Paramount, but we live in an oligarchy and I don't really blame them for trying to avoid pissing off the volatile baby that runs this country when DEI can still be achieved without using that terminology directly.

Is there evidence that this division of their corporation was actually doing anything different than before the term DEI even existed? Or that Paramount has current issues with diversity?

[–] themoken@startrek.website 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, at least they don't violate conservation of matter like the Dooplers appear to.

[–] themoken@startrek.website 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Ugh, I feel you. One is too many, 12 isn't enough.

[–] themoken@startrek.website 4 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I never really thought about it, but you're right, the Dooplers are too over the top and only make sense in a cartoon context.

The Pandronians from TAS and LD (the species that effectively have three independent parts) also make no sense outside of a cartoon.

[–] themoken@startrek.website 8 points 1 month ago

I always wondered if the GNU code was a reference to open source.

[–] themoken@startrek.website 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Been listening to the 5-4 podcast about how much the Supreme Court sucks and it's been partisan bullshit forever, but yeah Citizens United will probably be considered the death of American Democracy (even though it was terminally ill beforehand).

The Court will literally just make up rules out of thin air to justify whatever the fuck they want.

[–] themoken@startrek.website 18 points 1 month ago

What are you going to criticize Republicans for? Sure, they're morally bankrupt and destroying the country, but they're doing exactly what their dipshit voters asked for and succeeding beyond their wildest dreams.

Democrats are the ones who are being laughably inept at what they claim to want.

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