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Discord was already succumbing to enshitification. Now with their intention to be owned by Wall Street, that trajectory will certainly accelerate at warp speed once the change of hands happens.

Anyone already get ahead of this and find a solid alternative?

Right now I'm on the fence between Element for Matrix, and Revolt. Both seem to have their pros and cons and I can't find a clear "winner".

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[–] BroBot9000@lemmy.world 10 points 21 hours ago (5 children)

Why use Element for matrix?

From what I can tell it collets and links data to you: Location, identifiers and contact information.

How is that private or better than Signal?

[–] Nikelui@lemmy.world 26 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Because people don't use discord for privacy. They use it for gaming, voice chat, communities and streaming.

[–] sxan@midwest.social 14 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

@Nikelui is 100% right: a chat room may be private, but it's not secure. Even in an encrypted room, every additional person you add reduces your security. I'm sure there's some paper out there that studies this, and that the graph of # of members vs security is an inverse power ratio.

If it's a public chat, there is no security.

However, with Matrix, if you run your own server and restrict access to your friends, at least you can be fairly certain your chat room isn't being used to train an LLM, or to harvest information about you for advertising.

[–] BroBot9000@lemmy.world 4 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

There is a difference between willing information that you put out there and data gathering that goes on without your consent.

Public chats are not my concern. That’s information I’m putting out there willingly.

Location data is something I don’t want anyone collecting without my consent.

Why does Element need to know where I’m located? Why is that being gathered with my identifiers?

[–] sxan@midwest.social 3 points 19 hours ago

I don't know. I don't use Element; I wasn't aware it requested location service access. I switched to FluffyChat ages ago; it only asks for notification.

But that's just for group chat. I've been using Jami lately, and it does ask for location access; that's because it has a "share location" feature, that - if you use it - shows a little map with your location to the person you're sharing with. Maybe Element has implemented something similar?

[–] zod000@lemmy.ml 3 points 19 hours ago

Are you specifically referring to the mobile client of Element? i wasn't away of anything with the desktop client that has anything to do with location.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 3 points 14 hours ago

The Element web client will break encryption when you clear your browser data.

[–] doodledup@lemmy.world 12 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I use Signal for private and personal messages. I use Discord solely for gaming and voicechat. A good alternative doesn't need to be overly private (although that would be a bonus of course). It just needs to have a good UI and feature parity with Discord.

[–] BroBot9000@lemmy.world 6 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

There is a difference between willing information that you put out there and data gathering that goes on without your consent.

Location data is something I don’t want anyone collecting without my consent.

Why does Element need to know where I’m located? Why is that being gathered with my identifiers?

[–] mac@lemm.ee 4 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

You know the app still works if you deny it loc permissions, right?

[–] azalty@jlai.lu 1 points 7 hours ago

still means they’re willing to collect data

[–] tofu@lemmy.nocturnal.garden 4 points 17 hours ago

Does it? On Android, it never asked me to grant location permission unless I try to share my location to another user. Similar with contacts and calendar, it's working perfectly fine without them. Where exactly does it link those identifiers and with what?

[–] Link@rentadrunk.org 4 points 20 hours ago

Isn’t the data sharing optional? I’m pretty sure it asks you on first startup and you can decline.