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Edit for context:

My view is transracial isn’t valid and this person is trying to dogwhistle. I’ve already blocked this person, and now they’re going after my friend saying my friend is transphobic because they disagreed with them about transracial being a thing (they're purposefully leaving the context out so my friend looks transphobic when what my friend really said was transgender is valid but transracial isn't)

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[–] amino@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

culture and ethnicity have nothing to do with race. race is based on perceived phenotype

[–] FerretyFever0@fedia.io 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'd say that a lot of race is based upon shared experiences with other members of the group, and being seen as part of the group. Many people from the Middle East and North Africa see themselves as white. A lot of white Americans and Europeans disagree. I would say that being perceived as a member of an in group is more important than actual color. For example, some lighter skinned African-Americans were able to be perceived as white, thus being treated significantly better. Were they black? Of course they were. They made a conscious decision to pick which experiences and culture they wanted. But they definitely had experiences where they didn't pass, and had experiences according to their given race.

[–] amino@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

what you're talking about is proximity to whiteness. AFAIK passing was not a choice which makes Dolezal's actions even more violent. lighter Black people benefit from colorism but they're still at risk of lynching because of their race. white people doing blackface is a way to mock that powerlessness felt by victims of white supremacy and make money from clout.

as for non-white SWANA people assimilating into whiteness, that's a way to harness the colonial power structure to their own benefit by distancing themselves from Black people. this is all a trauma response and survival mechanism from centuries of European genocide like colored South Africans with the same phenotype as indigenous Africans claiming they're not Black.

[–] FerretyFever0@fedia.io 1 points 19 hours ago

If one was assumed to be white, then they could either make the choice to correct them, or not. Dolezal is fucking ridiculous, and definitely just trying to sow discord and violence, especially towards transgender people.