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[–] Spendrill@lemm.ee 168 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (7 children)

What does 'lock in' mean in this situation?

Yours faithfully,

a confused Brit.

[–] The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world 137 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Gen Z slang for saying "get it together and focus"

[–] Spendrill@lemm.ee 43 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Ah ok, thanks.

Where I'm from a lock in is a pub illegally serving drinkers after time by locking the doors.

[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Lock ins were all night parties for kids when I was growing up. Parents in 80s USA, wow.

[–] SharkAttak@kbin.melroy.org 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago

Undoubtedly, apologies if it was understood that I spoke as the sole arbiter of lock ins.

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[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Ok... So maybe this is a dumb question, but is it helpful to hear that when you're having a hard time?

[–] braxy29@lemmy.world 25 points 1 week ago (5 children)

i think it could be, depending upon circumstances. likewise, i think it could also be actively harmful (depending upon circumstances).

And personality type.

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[–] sundrei@lemmy.sdf.org 53 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] Itdidnttrickledown@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

Buck up. Suck it up. Maintain an even strain. I get it.

[–] Spendrill@lemm.ee 10 points 1 week ago
[–] papalonian@lemmy.world 42 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Traditionally, to be "locked in" on something would mean to be locked in on your target, goal, etc.

Telling someone to lock in or "lock it in" is kind of like a nice way of saying "get your shit together" or "focus up". I hear it in sports/ gaming lingo.

[–] Krik@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

So it's something like 'man up'. Ok, I can understand that.

[–] Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 week ago

There are negative connotations around "man up"

"Lock in" it just a fancy way to say, focus. But with a "we've got this" vibe to it.

[–] ulterno@programming.dev 6 points 1 week ago (3 children)

gaming lingo

I see. So just press Tab, right?

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[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 30 points 1 week ago

Stiff upper lip old chap!

God, it's like none of you speak Brit.

[–] Maggoty@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Cowboy up.

Get your boot straps out the dirt.

Cryers don't get healthcare.

(Okay I'm running out of Americanisms)

It's telling someone to stop being emotional.

[–] AdrianTheFrog@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I'd say it's telling someone to focus on a task at hand

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[–] Zomg@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

I see it as Stay Focused

[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

It's akin to "get over it" in this context.

[–] Amanduh@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I say less get over it and more "you got this"

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[–] Dagwood222@lemm.ee 95 points 1 week ago (1 children)

After all the stories about how male authors can't do realistic female characters, someone reversed it and asked how could you instantly tell if it was a woman describing a man.

The book 'The Outsiders' is about a bunch of tough guys who spend a lot of time talking about their feelings.

[–] sundrei@lemmy.sdf.org 27 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Stay gold, Ponyboy. (Wow, that name aged strangely.)

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 36 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] GluWu@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Llama 3.3 70B

Yaaas, lemme give you the skibidi scoop on The Outsiders. It's a whole vibe of a story about a squad of Greasers who are low-key tryin' to get that rizz in a world where the Socs are runnin' the game. Ponyboy, the main simp, is narratin' the whole thing, and he's all about that book-smart life, no cap.

So, the Greasers are like, a gang of brothers and friends who are tryin' to get that bag, but they're also all about that loyalty and friendship, you feel? They're a whole skibidi crew, with Ponyboy, Sodapop, Darry, Johnny, Dallas, and Two-Bit all bringin' the heat. They're not just some randoms, they're a real squad, and they've got each other's backs, no matter what.

But, bruh, the Socs are like, the ultimate haters. They're all about that prep life, and they think they're better than the Greasers just 'cause they've got more clout. They're always tryin' to get under the Greasers' skin, and it's a whole thing. There's a rumble, and it gets pretty turnt up. Johnny has to get all scuffed up and kill one of the Socs in self-defense, and it's a whole skibidi situation.

The rest of the story is like, a wild ride of emotions, with the Greasers dealin' with the aftermath of the rumble and tryin' to stay one step ahead of the popo. It's a real tear-jerker, tbh. But, for real, The Outsiders is a classic coming-of-age tale that's all about gettin' that rizz, stayin' true to yourself, and not lettin' the haters bring you down, you know? It's a whole mood, and if you haven't read it yet, you need to get on that skibidi grind, ASAP.

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

Why do you wish to cause such pain in the world?

[–] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 52 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think the middleground between toxic masculinity and overly emotion dumping femcels is a great target.

[–] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 33 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 32 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] besmtt@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

This comment makes your first one even funnier 😆

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[–] untorquer@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

The linguistic analog of a quaternion rotation.

[–] Delphia@lemmy.world 26 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Sometimes "Suck it the fuck up" is good advice, sometimes it isnt. Sometimes "Process this later" is healthy, sometimes it isnt.

Emotional health is knowing what you need and when.

[–] tischbier@feddit.org 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I’m a huge fan of embrace the suck and cut slingload

[–] Delphia@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

"Embrace the suck" is a big one for me. I work outdoors and unless the weather is dangerous you still have to get it done. So when proper shit weather hits I just laugh now because while its going to be terrible its going to be an experience.

Like that time I did 10 hours in 40c heat during a dust storm, wearing a respirator. Worst day ever... hell of an experience though.

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[–] Hozerkiller@lemmy.ca 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I honestly read this and until I saw the comments I assumed they were gaming and she locked in league champ select which is a valid time to cry seeing as youre about to play league.

[–] Presently42@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I genuinely lold. I also still kinda miss lol

[–] HalfSalesman@lemm.ee 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

Its terrible advice. Crying is good for you.

[–] Donkter@lemmy.world 27 points 1 week ago

Crying is good for you. Lighthearted encouragement and camaraderie is also good for you.

[–] LaLuzDelSol@lemmy.world 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Cry all day then for maximum health?

[–] EightLeggedFreak@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Entropywins@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Cry harder?

[–] Sparrow_Joint@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago

Save your tears today

You might need them tomorrow

Mine ran out too soon

[–] Maggoty@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Eh, it depends on the situation. There is definitely a time and place for locking your emotions down. Most people will never need it though.

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[–] humanspiral@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 week ago

Told my 5 year old to cry quietly once... cried louder.

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