I've had such a different experience than what the article describes! Long nails were usually shamed, you were high maintenance, extra, too girly. Girls with long nails would constantly get reminded that men don't find them attractive, as if that was relevant (I think I've even seen that in this thread).
I guess we have a tendency to do the opposite of what we're told to do growing up. I love growing out my nails now. Sometimes I feel like keeping them short, too.
I've also been a nail biter for over 20 years and short nails are much harder to not bite for me, so keeping them short is an added mental hassle. Still, worth it sometimes.