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Edit for context:

My view is transracial isn’t valid and this person is trying to dogwhistle. I’ve already blocked this person, and now they’re going after my friend saying my friend is transphobic because they disagreed with them about transracial being a thing (they're purposefully leaving the context out so my friend looks transphobic when what my friend really said was transgender is valid but transracial isn't)

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[–] toomanypancakes@lemmy.world 42 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

The best way to respond is to disregard them, block and move on. Transracial is an actual thing, but it refers to people of one race adopted by another. Transracial ala Dolezal is just a troll to attack trans people, no different from attack helicopters.

[–] Lyra_Lycan@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

It's not even a race, it's usually a community with a different culture, so the entire term is invalid. And humans are one species with no races, despite this we keep the divisions that the less educated from history created.

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[–] throwawayacc0430@sh.itjust.works 11 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

Transgender is more comparable to Naturalization.

You can become an American, British, Canadian, German, Japanese, or Chinese, in terms of Citizenship/Nationality, but you can't just magically change from White to Black or to Asian, or vice versa.

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[–] peteyestee@feddit.org 12 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

Just don't have conversation about this stuff at all. You can rarely change a person's mind.

I used to try talking about politics and things in my rural town but it's pointless. In America it's more like a drug people use, they like the rush they get from the drama. And most the time no one is saying anything original, it's like they just spout off market sound bites. The conversation will always go nowhere.

It might sound counter productive to not fight for something like that. But just live your life, and understand life and humanity is chaos, to try to change people is like trying turn the sun into an icecube. You can't fuck with the universe.

Dont waste time on that stuff, and instead be the best person you can be and be a good role model to your immediate circle. Thats worth more to the community and will spread naturally without trying.

[–] Almacca@aussie.zone 18 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (12 children)

Sounds like someone just looking to pick a fight. Disengage.

That said, I reckon as long as they're not hurting anyone, people can be whatever they like. Mind your own business. It's a slippery slope to start considering whether a fellow human is 'valid' or not.

[–] BassTurd@lemmy.world 4 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Their argument indirectly hurts transgender people. It's akin to when BLM (the movement, not the corrupt organization) was big and to counter it, conservatives parroted All Lives Matter. I'd say using the term transracial is arguably worse, because it's all bullshit, while technically All Lives Matter is true, but it's bad faith argument. I personally feel it's the duty of rational people to fight against that sort of speak.

[–] Almacca@aussie.zone 3 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

And you don't engage with bad faith arguments. Just tell them to fuck off and grow a brain.

[–] BassTurd@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago

I'll say fuck off without saying fuck off as to not get my shit removed, but bad faith arguments still need to be refuted so that ignorant people don't only see something like that and believe it's true. The amount of effort put into that only needs to be enough so that there exists a counter point.

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[–] Jobe@feddit.org 24 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (2 children)

They don't appear to understand the difference between cultural and gender identity. I'd try this:
"If a white person of european descent were raised from birth by a Sentinel Island tribe, would they be culturally european?"
The answer is obviously no, illustrating that the cultural identity of a person depends on the culture the person was raised in. I don't know how gender identity works, but clearly how someone is raised has little to do with it.
Edit: Disclaimer that I have absolutely no idea what I am talking about.

[–] Saleh@feddit.org 16 points 22 hours ago (5 children)

Problem is that "race" isn't just cultural. How you will be treated definitely depends on how other people perceive your "race" and subsequently it will shape your life reality.

That person you gave as an example? In the US, Canada or most European countries he will be treated better than an actual Citizen born and raised in the respective country who is perceived as "black" or "brown".

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[–] amino@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (3 children)

culture and ethnicity have nothing to do with race. race is based on perceived phenotype

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[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 6 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Walk away.

People want to troll. Don't feed trolls.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 14 hours ago

there were surprisngly a number of articles that came up over the years, rachel dolozel, the white chick that dint even know she wasnt black, so a reverse rachel dolezol. and a white guy pretending to filipino.

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 10 points 20 hours ago

"No it's not, and you know it"

Feel free to throw in some "dickhead"s as well, if they're gonna come in bad faith you don't have to be polite. Talk garbage, expect pain

[–] UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works 12 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

As someone who isnt qualified to answer any trans related question: just let them be as long as they're not being a jerk

There are bigger fish to fry. There probably are people out there who fully think they're a different race. Who's to say their feelings are invalid while others feelings are.

[–] ryannathans@aussie.zone 3 points 19 hours ago

Either people can express how they feel or they can't, and I'd rather people be able to express how they feel

[–] Diplomjodler3@lemmy.world 12 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

This person is not arguing in good faith and is just looking to make trouble. Engaging with people like that is as frustrating as it is futile.

[–] devolution@lemmy.world 5 points 19 hours ago (6 children)

I’d respond, “Rachel Dolezal was never shot by the police” and “Michael Jackson did not become an honorary white person just because he tried to be one.”

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[–] nondescripthandle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (11 children)

Race is an extremely unscientific way to catagorize human beings, and it's no wonder these people claim to be trans racial instead of trans ethnic. The more scientific, cultural, and hereditary definition of ethnicity means they'd have no real arguement to claim an ethnicity they weren't raised in and have no heritage from but the loose political definition of race gives them lots of wiggle room.

Tldr: tell them race isnt real and ethnicity is based on the culture you were raised in and the heritage of your ancestors. You can't force your ancestors to be a different ethnicity and you can transition a childhood upbringing, just an identity.

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[–] sthetic@lemmy.ca 5 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (2 children)

I'm no expert on either topic. But I believe humans basically start off as female in the womb, and either become male or don't. And there are many intersex conditions. The body responds to hormones typically associated with either sex. So gender is fluid in a biological sense. If someone transitions to male, female or nonbinary, they already kind of contained that potential.

However, race is a social construct, usually based on heritage as well as biological appearance. So it's hard to say how much biology is really involved. Does the human body contain the ability to be any race? Or to cultivate an appearance that prompts other humans to socially categorize you as one race or the other?

Maybe for people who are mixed race, there is a sort of spectrum available to them. They likely know how to present themselves in a way that gets them categorized as one race or the other.

But otherwise, not really. If you're White, and you say, "I identify as Black," the question might be: do you have Black heritage? If you don't, you can't really create it out of thin air. There wasn't a situation while you were in the womb where various hormones could have influenced you to appear more Black than you do. If your parents are both White, they were going to have a White baby, no matter what. Race is a social construct, but it's based on appearance and heritage. It's about belonging to a group, not about being an individual, the way gender is.

If you're assigned female at birth, and you say, "I identify as male," then cool! Your body already has the capability to become hormonally male. You can socially identify as male. Any human, of any race, has this potential. Any two parents could have a baby that is any sex or gender, depending on various factors.

[–] SaltSong@startrek.website 10 points 22 hours ago (5 children)

So, as a white person, I cannot pass as black, so I can never expect people to treat me like I'm black?

Don't get me wrong, I think the idea is silly, but all the arguments I've seen in this thread are a word-swap away from being a bad argument against transgender people.

What's the essential difference?

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 2 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

how is this even close to be about transgender/phobia, were talking about white people trying to pretend to be another race, because they have have x amount of checks on the checklist. race doesnt = gender.

[–] amino@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (3 children)

maybe stop comparing race and gender then. trans women only pass because we're women. you can't pass as Black because if you told someone you're Black they'd think you're a dipshit. you can't pass as something you're not.

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[–] Windex007@lemmy.world 9 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (2 children)

I'm uncomfortable with the idea that the only reason that being trans is valid is because of biological factors.

If we could construct a human that came into existence without being Female at some gestational point, you gonna tell them they can't be trans? If someone has a thyroid problem such that they their body CAN'T handle a sex hormone, you gonna tell them they can't be trans?

I feel like we're looking for a 9-D chess play when a 1-D play is sufficient: you say you're trans, you're trans. I'm not the fucking cops

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[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 5 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

I'm confused. Wouldn't transracial just be "mixed"? Like one parent is white, one parent is black.

Mixed baby.

Never heard someone refer to it as "transracial".

[–] Tiffany1994@lemmy.cafe 5 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

Transracial in this context is people identifying as different races, like Rachel Dolezal

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 14 hours ago

there was a story of a white guy thought he was a filipino guy, because he wears what they wear and drives what they drive.

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