I enjoy my men written well like I enjoy my women written well. I don't really give a shit about the author.
There have been some skin-crawling portrayals of women by female authors (like Twilight, like Harry Potter, like 50 Shades of Grey) and there have been skin-crawling portrayals of men by female authors (like Twilight, like 50 Shades of Grey, like ...).
There are more skin-crawling portrayals of women by male authors, of course, but I suspect you'll find that proportion inverting when you flip the genders in that.
Both groups tend to treat the other group as an ineffable alien force, with women being perhaps a bit more aware for the same reason that the field mouse is more aware of the hawk than the hawk is of the field mouse.