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[–] sparky@lemmy.federate.cc 38 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Hi, I’d like to buy a plane ticket to San Fr-

PENIS OR VAGINA?

[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 121 points 2 days ago (4 children)

"You may not fly on our planes without explicitly disclosing details about the nature of your genitals."

[–] comrade_twisty@feddit.org 58 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Instructions unclear: I showed my genitals at O’Hare and now I am no longer allowed in.

[–] pennomi@lemmy.world 45 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Honestly I think it would make sense to remove gender from all forms of government identification… does it REALLY matter to anyone other than your medical practitioner?

[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 29 points 2 days ago (2 children)

To most people? No. But it really matters to Republicans what's in your pants.

[–] _chris@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago

Tricky trans people tricked them once in college, and they liked it. Can’t have that.

[–] ZoopZeZoop@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

My phone, wallet, keys, and knife. That's as much detail as anyone needs.

[–] ohulancutash@feddit.uk 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Practically, yes. If the embassy were evacuating citizens, they’d need to know if the Tracey Warner they’re looking for is male or female.

[–] Zaktor@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 days ago

How helpful is that discriminator going to be for someone who chooses to put X as their gender? Not to mention just being actively misleading for butch women of feminine men.

[–] workerONE@lemmy.world 22 points 2 days ago (1 children)

"I can't interact with you unless I know what your genitals look like"

[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 days ago

"Wait, why aren't you color-coding your baby based on genetalia?"

[–] slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org 8 points 2 days ago

But it's discrimination to make fat people pay nore for a ticket.

[–] notsure@fedia.io 92 points 2 days ago (6 children)

...why is sex required anyway?..

[–] Capricorn_Geriatric@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Because virgins aren't allowed in, duh

[–] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

But it says "VIRGIN" right there on the plane! :(

[–] DupaCycki@lemmy.world 32 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] avattar@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 day ago

Only for the continuation of the species, not personally. So you are ok!

[–] shane@feddit.nl 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Different societies consider it an important part of one's identify.

Some countries have religion on the passport.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[–] alyqz@lemmy.sdf.org 19 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Mostly so they can more easily punish those who dare to stray too far from stereotypical gender roles.

[–] notsure@fedia.io 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

…fuck them he/she sexy bitches…. /s because you bitches is too literal

[–] knightly@pawb.social 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It's me, I'm he/she sexy bitches, please fuck me. =3

[–] notsure@fedia.io 34 points 2 days ago (1 children)

...no, I really want to know...

[–] dhork@lemmy.world 27 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (5 children)

Most identity documents do have a "sex" field, going all the way back to your birth certificate. It is seen as a key part of ones identity.

We can argue (and have argued) as a society about whether they are conflating "sex" with "gender". I just checked, though, and both my state-issued drivers' license and my Federal passport list my "sex" as an identifying trait.

The article gives a pretty good analysis of why it is good that we now have an "X" designation, for those who choose to use it. It's none of anyone's business how people present themselves vs. what is in their pants. However, we have very invasive technology that can see very intricate details, and a human with a penis who looks female may raise suspicion when they find bulges where they "shouldnt" be.

What is happening now is a bit of overreach, though. Identity documents have been issued, both in the US and other countries, with the "X" designation, and this policy just directs officials to ignore that. What else will they be told to ignore on official documents next?

[–] avattar@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 day ago

It does make sense on a birth certificate. As soon as I have a document with my current picture on it, and/or other biometric info, gender is no longer a necessity on a document IMHO.

[–] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 2 points 1 day ago

I agree that this is a ridiculous overreach, of course.

But I'm also so weary of this "Obsession with what's in your pants" argument everyone keeps memeing, as if, somehow sexual dimorphism is not a thing in our species and it's 100% about genitalia.

It's generally a valid descriptive trait that is often useful for identifying humans you otherwise know nothing much about.

I think there's room for understanding a rationale of such things while still condemning how petty, hateful, and stupid 100% of this administration's ideas are.

[–] notsure@fedia.io 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

...i require why sex is important, and you favour the argument that sex isn't important, i like you...

[–] dhork@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

I mean, it is a key part of ones identity, so it makes sense that it appears on identification documents.

The key question is whether it is more important to document the organs you had at birth, or how you present yourself now.

[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 days ago

a bit of overreach

A bit?

[–] Triumph@fedia.io 4 points 2 days ago

That last bit is the important part.

[–] Modest_Toxic@feddit.uk 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It does seem a bit weird. Who would I have to screw to board the plane? The pilot?

[–] pyre@lemmy.world 20 points 2 days ago
[–] apfelwoiSchoppen@lemmy.world 59 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

We have climate change, extreme disparity in wealth gap leading to poverty expanding, never ending wars, no functional right to healthcare, etc and these gaping bloviating rectums focus energy and attention on this bigoted nonsense. All by design.

[–] JumpyWombat@lemmy.ml 22 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Stop thinking in terms of bigotry and see it as a business model. Simple minds don't understand complex arguments, and some politicians give them easy answers and targets to blame. Considering that literally half of the population is more stupid than the average person, that strategy alone guarantees lots of votes. Until honest politicians won't understand that, everywhere in the world there will be a Trump winning the election.

[–] apfelwoiSchoppen@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I did say it was all by design. And it is systematized bigotry and affects real people so I'll call it what it is.

[–] JumpyWombat@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Be my guest. Just consider that by putting it in terms of bigotry, you imply that it's a bigot political position. I assume instead that it's a trick to fool idiots and get their votes while pursuing a business agenda.

[–] apfelwoiSchoppen@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

That is a very optimistic/distanced perspective when they are backing genocide and Kristalnachting real people in US cities. At the end of the day they are disappearing and killing people backed by corporate oligarchies and right wing billionaires.

[–] JumpyWombat@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 days ago

It's all 100% true and I agree with you, but this won't solve the problem, which is what I'm trying to explain.

To solve the problem it is essential to find a way to communicate with idiots in simple terms and get their vote. And no, talking about Kristalnacht won't work with one with and IQ below 90.

[–] newthrowaway20@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

If they couldn't attack blacks, Jews, women, gays, trans, and now liberals, then they'd actually have to do some work.

[–] apfelwoiSchoppen@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

Precisely, and a very good reason to not get into the stupid ideology of "working across the aisle".

Fascists are only focused on one thing.

[–] ValarieLenin@midwest.social 4 points 2 days ago

I mean the US government is literally shutdown but they still have time for this bullshit....

[–] etchinghillside@reddthat.com 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Wouldn’t that be done at the passport application process where airlines aren’t involved?

[–] dhork@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago

It was, already. That's why some documents have "X" in the first place. The government is explicitly directing them to ignore that, and just make shit up to put in that field.

[–] betanumerus@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Luggage has no sex at all. Do they take luggage?

[–] andallthat@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Says you, my trolley is pretty hot!

[–] Today@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (3 children)

When someone is missing or is a possible threat, they give a description - white 35yo male - or whatever. I get having sex on ID info. I'm old and I'm confused by m/f and why the person needs to change instead of society changing? Can you still be what you medically are but wear, look, alter how you choose? How much is "i feel female" versus "i feel like what society expects female to be" ? I dunno- like I said, I'm old and confused.

[–] Triumph@fedia.io 12 points 2 days ago

I’m also old, and often confused, but less about this one, because of personal experience.

The world is shifting quickly away from “almost everyone adheres to gender norms” to “what’s wrong with people being perceived the way they’d like to be?”

It’s about individual expression of self. The bits and bobs that people have under their clothes may have zero correlation with what their traditionally recognized appearance is.

If someone is lost or a threat, it makes more sense to look for them based on how they present themselves in public, and not how they look naked. (Which can be ambiguous, too.)

Your recognizing your own confusion is a good thing. It means that you are aware that there are still things you need to learn. You’re all right.

[–] Zaktor@sopuli.xyz 8 points 2 days ago

If they're putting out a description, someone with an X market is probably better visually described as "gender non-conforming" than a gender they're not really presenting as. They may even present as one gender for the flight and then another when out in public, so being described with one gender could actively disrupt visual identification.

[–] frongt@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 days ago

I mean at that point it's just philosophical. Is a woman an ideal for you to fit, or is it defined what the people do, how they act, and what they wear?