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[–] Sarmyth@lemmy.world 39 points 19 hours ago (5 children)

I think the widespread use of chat clients and services like slack in large companies has changed this norm.

There was a time where it would be unprofessional, but now its a solution to the communication flaw inherent in written messages. Conveying emotion.

[–] Zenith@lemm.ee 10 points 15 hours ago

My spouse works fairly high up at one of the evil tech giants and their team was very excited to be working with some dude who had written a computer language (I don’t remember the details) and someone had written him this very professional document requesting he read it and assess it, his only response to this very carefully prepared document was a “👍🏻” and literally nothing else lol, everyone was low key offended but no one said anything to him because they all basically considered him a celebrity

[–] chatokun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 16 hours ago

I work for a MSP, and we have a chat for "account managers", a non technical position where they interact with the clients upper management, and tell them stuff we as techs shouldn't (hard no's, complaints, large project recommendations etc).

That chat is full of gifs, jokes, emoticons and some memes. I feel like the weird one not feeling comfortable doing that there. I do all that stuff too, but usually in smaller more private chats.

[–] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 7 points 17 hours ago

Very well said.

Gonna use this argument anytime a boomer breaths.

[–] HexadecimalSky@lemmy.world 4 points 15 hours ago

Ill message my boss and get a emoticon response sometimes, usually for simple yes or okay responses, and they'll send out meme for some regular announcements like timesheets or stuff

[–] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago

I use the facepalm one all the time at work.

[–] pyre@lemmy.world 8 points 14 hours ago

dude it's not a eulogy. how are people still bitching about smiley faces especially in conversations like this. fucking inhuman corporate robot piece of 💩

[–] ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com 35 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

"I've never been promoted for my professionalism, but I've been promoted countless times for my skill. If you'd rather lose out on the best employee you may ever have because of a smiley face, I'm not sure this environment would be a good fit for me anyway."

[–] Landless2029@lemmy.world 31 points 1 day ago (8 children)

Am I the only one who sends GIFs in work chats?

I mean I won't send one to a VP but I can send them to peers, supervisors, managers, department heads. No issues.

Hell people throw down happy Monday memes around.

[–] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 13 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

GIFs are just about the best thing about moving from Skype to Teams for work. I think if they took them from us there'd be an uproar tbh.

[–] Landless2029@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Microsoft bought giphy I think so they know what's up. That's why they got a GIF button now.

[–] aka@lemm.ee 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I can't find anywhere that says Microsoft has owned Giphy.

[–] Landless2029@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago

Meta bought giphy. I got it twisted

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I worked at a mid sized company, we used slack and used gifs and memes and had thousands of custom emojis uploaded.

Got purchased by a mega Corp, now use Teams, we've been slowly corrupting them with smileys, memes, gifs, etc. It's been good.

[–] Landless2029@lemmy.world 8 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Same thing happened to us but we've completed the corruption already.

Important meetings are meme/gif free but daily meetings and team chats are fully corrupted. It's more of a work culture thing. Less stuffy.

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 4 points 21 hours ago

Yeah it's been a couple years now and it's clear we're won lol. Our last town hall had a game where you spam gifs in the chat :P would have been unthinkable a couple years ago. They literally had gifs turned off before we got there.

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[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 4 points 21 hours ago

Amateurs, I share scat porn on slack.

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[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 31 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They're friendlier, and even if you hate them, they make intent a lot clearer over text.

Being courteous and clear in your communications is professional. Being tacit and sententious is not.

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

sententious

sententious /sĕn-tĕn′shəs/ adjective

  1. Terse and energetic in expression; pithy.
  2. Full of or given to using aphorisms, especially in a pompously moralizing manner.
  3. Abounding with sentences, axioms, and maxims; full of meaning; terse and energetic in expression; pithy. "a sententious style or discourse; sententious truth"

Learned a new word, thanks!

[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 6 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Haha thanks for commenting with the definition. I considered doing that myself, since I too only just recently learned the word, but somehow it feels kind of condescending to do it myself.

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 19 hours ago

lol yeah, would've been weird if you did it, and I wanted to save some folks the time. I wonder if it would still be condescending if you just linked a word to a page with its definition?

[–] recklessengagement@lemmy.world 41 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

Emojis are fine, but I still prefer emoticons - I feel like they have more flair ^ _ ^

[–] ricecake@sh.itjust.works 3 points 15 hours ago

Depending on the venue, I end up viewing emotions as a passive indicator of "Internet tenure". O⁠_⁠o Conveys that someone has been on the Internet longer than 🤨 usage. (In some cases)

[–] HexesofVexes@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

<_<

>_>

All clear, management have gone on another away day!

^_^

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 16 points 1 day ago

༼ つ◔ _◔༽つ TAKE MY ENERGY ༼ つ◔ _◔༽つ

[–] elucubra@sopuli.xyz 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I agree, but there is just too many who are late t9 the oarty and just wouldn get it.

¯ _(ツ)_/¯

EDIT: I wonder why the backslash doesn't display

[–] excral@feddit.org 31 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Because the backslash is an escape character:

  1. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ -> ¯_(ツ)_/¯
  2. ¯\\_(ツ)_/¯ -> ¯\(ツ)
  3. ¯\\\_(ツ)_/¯ -> ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Explanation:

  1. the backslash is used to escape the underscore.
  2. the first backslash escapes the second backslash, so it's shown as a backslash. The pair of underscores is used to display the characters between in italics
  3. both the backslash and the first underscore are escaped, everything finally works
[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago

( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

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[–] m3t00@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago

we made smiley faces with keyboard characters in the before times. nobody cared. it was no big deal. wink smile frown w/e. emojis ruined it. Unprofessional like when graphic artist used 'love you like a sister' font on a college website. cartoons are not serious. business is serious business and takes itself seriously. any MBA would agree. does it increase growth or profit? lose it. graphic clowns stick to ads for the click-bait spam that somehow makes money. :-)

[–] djmikeale@lemm.ee 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

🖕 that guy and his supposed professionalism

[–] Gismonda@lemmy.world 160 points 1 day ago (10 children)

Weird … I was told the exact same thing by my boss.

So I stopped using emojis, and then she told me that my messages were “passive-aggressive” or “rude”

And I told her that’s why people use emojis, to add the nuance that is missing because we aren’t communicating face-to-face 🤷‍♀️

[–] zerofk@lemm.ee 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Emoji are fine, but I hate when people follow every other word with one. You know the type: every “I see” is followed by 👀, they can’t mention a house without 🏠, and God help you if they start talking about their pet, because there’s more pictures of animals, hearts, and stars than words.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 131 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Per my previous email: 🍆

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[–] Unlearned9545@lemmy.world 65 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I disabled to use of emojis when I set up our companies internal wiki for SOP thinking that wasn't appropriate for technical documentation, but my boss asked me to turn them back on because he wanted to use them. I begrudgingly obliged.

Turns out he didn't want to use smileies, just the icons for quickly identifying bullet points like ⛔‼️✅❕or even 🌐🖨️

[–] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 59 points 1 day ago (1 children)

A decade ago, I was annoyed by emojis. Hate that shit.

But then some PM decorated all the knowledge base page titles in our Confluence to have a icon in the front to visually group the goal.

And that's when I learned how valuable a good emoji can be.

[–] kboy101222@sh.itjust.works 31 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

As a fellow former hater and likely fellow autist (it is 196 after all), emojis are freaking great. Helps to convey emotions and feelings in regular text and helps to clarify things in more formal texts.

[–] RedSnt 79 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

This is why I hate people. You never know when you'll meet one of these dumb dumbs that think life is a competition to seem the most adult. They're the idiots that need to have prefaces saying shit like "the video game industry is actually bigger than the music and movie industry combined" when reading financial times. Get stuffed.

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