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Legit, I like her immediately. She's interesting. Enjoy, she may be a keeper!

1. "Has trouble finding things" hmmm.
2. "Persistent"

I once saw a professor on my way to his class and, since I really abhor small talk, I kept walking just far back enough for him to not notice me until we got to the classroom where he just kept walking straight ahead. I went in and 15 minutes later he arrived saying "I couldn't find the classroom". No, it wasn't the first class.

I would say this is definitely not a red flag.

But I'm also not saying it's green. Probably more green than anything... Maybe a nice seafoam.

The Good is that she wasn't angry and was being patient. Letting you figure it out. The not great but not bad part of this is that she did nothing to help.

I would have just stepped outside for "some fresh air" and wait for the person to notice me standing next to the entrance. That way I'm helping them, but only a little, they still have to find me. Finding me may be easier than finding the establishment that we agreed to meet at.

The key here is to not go out and call them over. Let them find you. If you call them, it's kinda difficult to walk the line of, "oh hey, I'm over here" and not cross over into "get over here stupid. I had to come get you because you're to dumb to find things yourself".... Best play is just to make yourself more obvious.

I wouldn't say this is a green flag as it is, but it's definitely not a red one.

I think a second date would be needed at least before claiming red or green flag. She sounds interesting, but I have concerns that it could get bad quick...

that's a keeper. humour, and no misplaced respect.

One time I was meeting someone for a second date. I got a seat at a table outside. There's a fence and a gate between that area and the sidewalk.

I see her walk by. She sees me. She waves. She keeps walking and is gone.

I'm have so many questions. I text her.

Turns out she didn't know there was a gate in the fence there and thought you had to go like around the long way, but for solid moment I thought she was like aggressively standing me up.

We dated for a few years and are still friends.

Green flag. This is science girlfriend behavior

Green flag, letting you make your own mistakes without getting mad

Green flag, she's down for social experiments

Hmmmm... maybe it was neither a red flag nor a green flag. Maybe it was just scientific curiosity. Mouse in a maze type of thing haha

Maybe we're all a little flag fatigued, and we don't need to analyze every behavior of a bunch of jumped up apes on a scorecard of correct and incorrect answers for every decision they make?

I get that we are all hyper-aware of just how bad it can get if we don't pay attention to warning signs in 2025, but can't someone do something a little quirky without it being an indicator of virtue or flaw?

That’s a both flags if I ever heard one

All these comments about her but nobody has asked how it took him 7 minutes to find a cafe in one intersection? It's not a secret lair, presumably enough people find it that it stays in business.

I probably would have done the same thing. Sounds cute to watch.

I would have been fascinated by this attitude and we would have had an extensive conversation on the risks and controls of this process

100% Green Flag. She was checking you for red flags and aware of her surroundings.

Did you panic? Ask someone else? Freak out and leave? Pick your nose? Exhibit signs of being nuts? No? You figured it out and were not weird? Great. Then she doesn't need to duck out before you find the place. OP posting about this online means she ought to cut it off with him, she's better than him.

Edit: Some of y'all need to talk to a woman some time.

GREEN. If u don't date her, I will. But maybe I just have a thing for pranksters.